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Cecilia Vaicels of Bellerose, Queens, recalls her courtship with future husband Charlie and a couple of memorable dates. M y husband, Charlie, and I met in July 1974 at Glenn’s Tavern on Hillside Avenue in Richmond Hill, Queens. My friends and I were meeting some people at the tavern, which we hadn’t been to before. A group of guys, including Charlie, started talking to us. Someone asked me where I worked. When I said I was an executive secretary at Con Edison, Charlie said his father worked for Con Edison, too. We started a conversation. Charlie was 19 and was a checking account clerk at Manufacturer’s Hanover Trust Bank in Manhat- tan. He lived in Glendale. I was 21 and lived in Ridgewood. My name was Cecilia Tierney then. Our first date was on Aug. 7. He gave me a bottle of Rev- lon’s Charlie perfume, then took me to Your Father’s Mustache, a Greenwich Vil- lage restaurant. We ordered food and he asked me what I’d like to drink. My mother ad- vised me to get whatever he was having so I wouldn’t order something too pricey and embarrass him. I said, “What- ever you’re drinking.” He ordered a pitcher of beer. Charlie was such a gentle- man. He even bought me a T-shirt. We were having a wonderful time! However, I wasn’t used to drinking beer and I drank three mugs. As we walked outside, the hot air hit me and I fell like a tree! Char- lie picked me up, threw me over his shoulder and carried me to his car. I slept all the way home. We continued dating and six weeks later we went fishing. On board the boat I got a bite on the line. There were six hooks with a Mackerel on each one. As I reeled in the line, Charlie told me to whip it over the rail. I did and some fish went flying across the boat. Suddenly Charlie was yelling, “Don’t pull!” I had hooked him in the seat of his pants and had literally caught myself a man. We were married on March 17, 1979 — St. Patrick’s Day — at St. Matthias Church in Ridgewood. In 1989 we moved to Bellerose, Queens. We have one daughter. Charlie retired in 2006 as a superintendent with the New York City Sanitation Depart- ment. I’ve worked at several jobs over the years. Since 1991, I’ve had acting parts with many theater groups and now perform in shows for Isle of Shoals Productions. We marked our 35th wed- ding anniversary last year by marching in the St. Patrick’s Day parade, followed by din- ner and a comedy show, plus a two-night stay at the New York Hilton where we spent our honeymoon. For our 36th anniversary, we went to Wood- loch Pines Resort in Pennsylva- nia with friends. Our life together has never been dull. My husband tells everyone, if they want to have a wild time at their wedding, marry an Irish girl on St. Patrick’s Day! — WITH VIRGINIA DUNLEAVY AMITYVILLE MEMORIAL HIGH SCHOOL ’64-’65. A 50-year joint reunion is Aug. 14-16. Email Carol Nehring at amityvillehs [email protected]. BAYPORT BLUE POINT HIGH SCHOOL ’95. A reunion is 6-10 p.m. June 27 at The Harbor Crab in Patchogue. Email [email protected] for more information. BAYPORT/BLUE POINT ALUMNI COMMITTEE. A reunion luncheon for all graduates, guests and faculty members is 12:30-4:30 p.m. July 9 at The Mediterra- nean Manor, 303 E. Main Street, Patchogue. $37 per person. Call Bob at 631-289-1532. DEER PARK HIGH SCHOOL ’75. A reunion is planned; Historical perspective presentation is 3-5 p.m. May 30 in the high school cafeteria, cost is $10 a couple; dinner is 6 p.m. at Savino’s, 511 Commack Rd., Deer Park, in- cludes buffet, cost is $12 a person; reserve by May 16. Email lisa.martin@ cruiseplanners.com. GLEN COVE HIGH SCHOOL ’75. A 40-year reunion is Aug. 8 at Sea Cliff Manor. Call Marty Wertheim at 516-671-0427 or email GCHSclassof75@yahoo .com. LONG BEACH CATHOLIC REGIONAL SCHOOL. A 60th anniversary/re- union for all years is planned for June 13 at the school. Visit lbcrsalumni.com or email [email protected]. LONG BEACH HIGH SCHOOL ’65. A 50-year reunion is May 16 at the Lido Golf Club. Call Donna Selnick at 916-764-2883. MOST HOLY TRINITY HIGH SCHOOL ’65. A 50-year reunion is 3-7 p.m. June 6 from at Plattdeut- sche Park Restaurant, 1132 Hempstead Turnpike, Franklin Square. Email Greg Murphy at [email protected]. OCEANSIDE HIGH SCHOOL ’60. A 55-year reunion is Sept. 26 at the Long Beach Hotel. Visit 1960sailors.net or call Howie Levy at 702-279-5389 or email [email protected]. WANTAGH HIGH SCHOOL ’75. A 40-year reunion is 7-11 p.m. Aug. 1 at the Plainview Holiday Inn. Email whs75reunion@ yahoo.com. — DARLENE GEIN LI CELEBRATIONS SUBMIT DETAILS to Darlene Gein at 631-843-2076 or email [email protected]. LOVE STORY Beer and bait led to memorable dates Cecilia and Charlie married on March 17, 1979. They celebrated their 35th anniversary last year marching in the St. Patrick’s Day parade. newsday.com/lilife VAICELS FAMILY VAICELS FAMILY REUNIONS TELL US ABOUT HOW YOU MET. Access the online form at Newsday.com/lilovestory — or send an anecdote along with your phone number and a photo to Love Story, Newsday, 235 Pinelawn Rd., Melville, NY 11747-4250; or email [email protected], or call Virginia Dunleavy at 631-843-2923. Publication is not guaranteed. Photos cannot be returned and may be used in other publications affiliated with Newsday. G26 NEWSDAY, SUNDAY, APRIL 19, 2015 newsday.com N1 LI LIFE

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Cecilia Vaicels of Bellerose,Queens, recalls her courtshipwith future husband Charlie anda couple of memorable dates.

My husband, Charlie, andI met in July 1974 atGlenn’s Tavern on

Hillside Avenue in RichmondHill, Queens. My friends and Iwere meeting some people atthe tavern, which we hadn’tbeen to before.

A group of guys, includingCharlie, started talking to us.Someone asked me where Iworked. When I said I was anexecutive secretary at ConEdison, Charlie said his fatherworked for Con Edison, too. Westarted a conversation. Charliewas 19 and was a checkingaccount clerk at Manufacturer’sHanover Trust Bank in Manhat-tan. He lived in Glendale. I was21 and lived in Ridgewood. Myname was Cecilia Tierney then.

Our first date was on Aug. 7.He gave me a bottle of Rev-lon’s Charlie perfume, thentook me to Your Father’sMustache, a Greenwich Vil-lage restaurant. We orderedfood and he asked me what I’dlike to drink. My mother ad-vised me to get whatever hewas having so I wouldn’t ordersomething too pricey andembarrass him. I said, “What-ever you’re drinking.” Heordered a pitcher of beer.

Charlie was such a gentle-man. He even bought me aT-shirt. We were having awonderful time! However, Iwasn’t used to drinking beerand I drank three mugs. As wewalked outside, the hot air hitme and I fell like a tree! Char-lie picked me up, threw me

over his shoulder and carriedme to his car. I slept all theway home.

We continued dating and sixweeks later we went fishing. Onboard the boat I got a bite on theline. There were six hooks witha Mackerel on each one. As Ireeled in the line, Charlie toldme to whip it over the rail. I didand some fish went flying acrossthe boat. Suddenly Charlie wasyelling, “Don’t pull!” I hadhooked him in the seat of hispants and had literally caughtmyself a man.

We were married on March17, 1979 — St. Patrick’s Day —at St. Matthias Church inRidgewood. In 1989 we movedto Bellerose, Queens. We haveone daughter.

Charlie retired in 2006 as asuperintendent with the NewYork City Sanitation Depart-ment. I’ve worked at severaljobs over the years. Since 1991,

I’ve had acting parts withmany theater groups and nowperform in shows for Isle ofShoals Productions.

We marked our 35th wed-ding anniversary last year bymarching in the St. Patrick’sDay parade, followed by din-ner and a comedy show, plus atwo-night stay at the NewYork Hilton where we spent

our honeymoon. For our 36thanniversary, we went to Wood-loch Pines Resort in Pennsylva-nia with friends.

Our life together has neverbeen dull. My husband tellseveryone, if they want to have awild time at their wedding,marry an Irish girl on St.Patrick’s Day!

— WITH VIRGINIA DUNLEAVY

AMITYVILLE MEMORIAL HIGHSCHOOL ’64-’65. A 50-year jointreunion is Aug. 14-16. EmailCarol Nehring at [email protected] BLUE POINT HIGHSCHOOL ’95. A reunion is 6-10p.m. June 27 at The HarborCrab in Patchogue. [email protected] formore information.BAYPORT/BLUE POINT ALUMNICOMMITTEE. A reunion luncheonfor all graduates, guests and

faculty members is 12:30-4:30p.m. July 9 at The Mediterra-nean Manor, 303 E. MainStreet, Patchogue. $37 perperson. Call Bob at631-289-1532.DEER PARK HIGH SCHOOL ’75. Areunion is planned; Historicalperspective presentation is 3-5p.m. May 30 in the high schoolcafeteria, cost is $10 a couple;dinner is 6 p.m. at Savino’s, 511Commack Rd., Deer Park, in-cludes buffet, cost is $12 a

person; reserve by May 16.Email [email protected] COVE HIGH SCHOOL ’75. A40-year reunion is Aug. 8 atSea Cliff Manor. Call MartyWertheim at 516-671-0427 oremail [email protected] BEACH CATHOLIC REGIONALSCHOOL. A 60th anniversary/re-union for all years is planned forJune 13 at the school. Visitlbcrsalumni.com or email

[email protected] BEACH HIGH SCHOOL ’65. A50-year reunion is May 16 atthe Lido Golf Club. Call DonnaSelnick at 916-764-2883.MOST HOLY TRINITY HIGH SCHOOL’65. A 50-year reunion is 3-7p.m. June 6 from at Plattdeut-sche Park Restaurant, 1132Hempstead Turnpike, FranklinSquare. Email Greg Murphy [email protected] HIGH SCHOOL ’60. A55-year reunion is Sept. 26 at

the Long Beach Hotel. Visit1960sailors.net or call HowieLevy at 702-279-5389 or [email protected] HIGH SCHOOL ’75. A40-year reunion is 7-11 p.m.Aug. 1 at the Plainview HolidayInn. Email [email protected].

— DARLENE GEIN

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SUBMIT DETAILS to Darlene Geinat 631-843-2076 or [email protected].

LOVE STORY

Beer and bait led to memorable dates

Cecilia and Charlie married on March 17, 1979. They celebrated their 35th anniversary last year marching in the St. Patrick’s Day parade.

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