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Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl gmf `l blikflb rc kfga|bl m f|e`lp ci rnkfow& Olflpmaa{! kf O|{mfm! mfb mw kwgmppklb kf rnl Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr! Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl kw blikflb mw8

/m `lnmykc|p nkgn gm|wlw cfl tmprflp kf m plamrkcfwnkt rc `l mipmkb ci rnl crnlp& Rnpc|on rnl |wl

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Nlat ) Wnlarlp mgjfcalbolw rnmr rnlpl kw ykcalfgl kf fcf%nlrlpcwl~|ma plamrkcfwnktw mfb rnmr rnlcttplwwkyl mrrkr|blw rc tlctal ci marlpfmrkyl wl~|makrklw ‗ alw`kmfw! om{w! `kwl~|maw! crnlpw ‗ rpmt rnlwlykgrkew ci m`|wl i|prnlp&

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Olflpma Mke

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Rkel = nc|p

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Rkel 2< ekf|rlw

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Rkel = nc|p

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.Ipce rnl GMIPM Emf|ma mfb crnlp wc|pglw+

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cf rnl cpab&

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yma|lw gmf cfa{ `l elr `{ |fblpwrmfbkfo cfl/w cf yma|lw&

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0& =

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Olflpma MkeRc okyl tmprkgktmfrw wcel `mwkg kficpemrkcf m`c|r bcelwrkg ykcalfgl momkfwr celf kf O|{mfm

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7&Bkwg|ww rnl fmr|pl ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mfb wtc|wma m`|wl

2&Bkwg|ww rnl wcgklrma mrrkr|blw w|ppc|fbkfo bcelwrkg ykcalfgl kf O|{mfm

0&= Kfgkblfgl ci Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl

Mgrkykr{ 0&=

Mwj tmprkgktmfrw nc emf{ ci rnle jfc wcelcfl nc nmw `llf m`|wlb cp nc kw l~tlpklfgkfo m`|wl

mr rnl nmfbw ci wcelcfl rnl{ akyl krn cp jfc& \wl rnkw kw m elmw|pl rc wnc nc emf{ tlctal jfcci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mfb rnl tcwwk`al kfgkblfgl&

Rkel 8 =4 ekf|rlw

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0& =0

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tn{wkgma m`|wl! l&o&! t|wnkfo! jkgjkfo! g|iikfo! `krkfo! wamttkfo! jfllakfo cf opmrlp:ylp`ma m`|wl! l&o&! |wl ci ic|a amfo|mol! fmel gmaakfo:

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0& =7

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G&  Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl kw fcr m tpkymrl emrrlp& Rnl liilgr cf wcgklr{ kw rcc imp pmfokfo wcgkmaa{ mfb lgcfcekgmaa{icp kr fcr rc `l rmjlf wlpkc|wa{ `{ maa kf c|p gcee|fkrklw& Fcf%kfrlpylfrkcf almylw celf mfb gnkabplf|ftpcrlgrlb ipce ykcalfgl mfb m`|wl % gcee|fkrklw e|wr rmjl |t plwtcfwk`kakr{ rc tpcykbl tpcrlgrkcf mfb wllkr mw m gpkel! m blfkma ci `mwkg pkonrw! fcr m /tpkymrl emrrlp/&

B&  Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl kfycaylw m kbl pmfol ci gcfrpcaakfo `lnmykc|pw ci nkgn tn{wkgma ykcalfgl kw `|r m tmpr&Kr kw fcr mf mpo|elfr rnmr nmw ocr c|r ci nmfb % nkgn ketaklw wnmplb im|ar mfb rnmr rnl cemf gc|ab#wnc|ab`l m`al rc ikfb m wca|rkcf&

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7&=

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7&= Lfrpmtelfr

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Bkykbl tmprkgktmfrw kfrc opc|tw& Mwj tmprkgktmfrw rc gcel |t krn m pcal%tam{ kf nkgn wcel ci rnlimgrcpw ci lfrpmtelfr mpl nkonakonrlbRkel8 =< ekf|rlw tpltmpmrkcf ci rnl pcal%tam{! < ekf|rlw blecfwrpmrkcf tlp opc|tcp

Mgrkykr{ 7&= gT|r |t rnpll iakt gnmpr tmtlpw cf bkiilplfr tmprw& Cfl iakt gnmpr krn nlmb /Wcgkma imgrcpw/! Cfl krn

G|ar|pma imgrcpw mfb cfl krn kfbkykb|ma imgrcpw& Bkykbl tmprkgktmfrw kfrc rnpll opc|tw& Alr rnl opc|twmaj mpc|fb rnl pcce mfb pkrl |t plalymfr imgrcpw |fblp lmgn nlmbkfo&

@pklikfo Fcrlw.Rnl icaackfo fcrlw mpl rmjlf ipce m nmfbc|r kf rnl GMIPM Rpmkfkfo Emf|ma&+

Kr kw cirlf bkiikg|ar icp tlctal rc |fblpwrmfb n{ kr kw rnmr celf wrm{ kf wkr|mrkcfw ci bcelwrkgykcalfgl& \fblpwrmfbkfo rnlkp l~tlpklfglw kaa elmf {c| kaa `l `lrrlp l}|kttlb rc mwwkwr& Rnl}|lwrkcf ‑_n{ bclw wnl wrm{3― kw krwlai m icpe ci ykgrke `amekfo! mw rnc|on rnlpl kw wcelrnkfo pcfo

krn rnl cemf& Kfwrlmb! l wnc|ab `l mwjkfo ‑Nc bclw rnl M`|wlp lfrpmt nkw ykgrke3― cp ‑Nc bclwnl emjl kr bkiikg|ar icp nlp rc almyl3―! nkgn t|rw rnl icg|w cf rnl m`|wlp! nlpl kr `lacfow& Nl |wlw

ykcalfgl! ci gc|pwl! `|r nl mawc bltlfbw cf wcgkma imgrcpw rnmr gcfrpk`|rl rc rnl y|aflpm`kakr{ ci celf&

Wcel ci rnl m{w kf nkgn mwwm|arlb celf mpl lfrpmttlb cf m tlpwcfma alyla ci mfma{wkw kfga|bl8%

=&Rnplmrw ci ykcalfgl& Ki wnl nmw maplmb{ l~tlpklfglb ykcalfgl! lylf rnl rnplmr ci i|prnlp ykcalfgl em{lfrpmt nlp! c|r ci ilmp:

0&Emfkt|amrkcf `{ wnckfo jkfbflww mfb miilgrkcf nlf nl kw plmb{:

7&Ki wnl kw mf kaaloma keekopmfr! `{ rnplmrlfkfo rc nmyl nlp bltcprlb:&2&Emjkfo nlp illa bltlfblfr |tcf nke! `laklykfo rnmr wnl gc|abf‛r gctl krnc|r nke:

<&Emjkfo nlp illa o|kar{! gcfykfgkfo nlp rnmr ki wnl lpl m `lrrlp kil nl c|abf‛r nmyl rc „bkwgktakfl‛nlp:

9&@plmjkfo bcf nlp gcfikblfgl mfb wlai%lwrlle:?&Jlltkfo nlp kwcamrlb ipce nlp imeka{ mfb ipklfbw! mfb mf{cfl nc ekonr nlat nlp:>&Tpcecrkfo m wlfwl ci nlatalwwflww mfb wnmel kf nlp:

;&Rnplmrlfkfo rc nmpe nlp tmplfrw ki wnl almylw:=4&Rnplmrlfkfo rc nmpe nlp gnkabplf:

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==&Kf wemaa gcee|fkrklw .cp wemaa kwamfb wrmrlw+! nlpl kr kw nmpb icp rnl cemf rc nkbl icp ylp{ acfo!`{ nkbkfo nlp tmwwtcpr wc rnmr wnl gmffcr oc rc ipklfbw cp plamrkylw kf mfcrnlp rlppkrcp{:

=0&Ki nl kw m ele`lp ci rnl tcakgl wlpykgl! `{ tlpw|mbkfo nlp rnmr nlpl lylp wnl oclw wcelcfl kf rnltcakgl icpgl kaa ikfb nlp mfb rlaa nke&

Kf mbbkrkcf! rnlpl mpl glprmkf imgrcpw cf m g|ar|pma mfb wcgkma alyla ci mfma{wkw nkgn gcfrpk`|rl rc rnllfrpmtelfr! w|gn mw8%

†  wcgkma cp imeka{ `lakliw rnmr celf e|wr `l w|`ekwwkyl rc rnlkp n|w`mfbw:

†  amgj ci wnlarlpw cp wmil tamglw rc oc rc:

†  amgj ci letac{elfr cttcpr|fkrklw:

†  fc bm{ gmpl imgkakrklw! wc rnmr wnl gmf cpj mfb w|ttcpr nlpwlai mfb nlp gnkabplf:

†  fc ocylpfelfr tpcykwkcfw icp laimpl tm{elfrw:

†  fc nlat ipce rnl tcakgl cf lmpaklp mrrletrw:

†  plakokc|w cp g|ar|pma `lakliw:

†  akykfo kf m p|pma mplm nlpl kr kw nmpb rc olr rpmfwtcpr:

†  tn{wkgma! lecrkcfma cp elfrma bkwm`kakr{:

†  cab mol:

Kr gmf `l ylp{ ip|wrpmrkfo nlf m cemf {c| nmyl nlatlb rc lwgmtl ipce mf m`|wkyl wkr|mrkcf plr|pfw rcrnmr wkr|mrkcf& Kr kw lmw{ rc `l h|boelfrma mr rnlwl rkelw! tlpnmtw `lgm|wl {c| mpl wc glprmkf rnmr! kf nlptcwkrkcf! {c| c|ab flylp bc w|gn m rnkfo& Ki rnl cemf mwjw icp nlat m wlgcfb! cp rnkpb rkel! ipcfr%

akfl cpjlpw nmyl `llf jfcf rc rplmr rnl wkr|mrkcf krn m amgj ci wlpkc|wflww rnmr rnl{ c|ab fcr lylp`pkfo rc mfcrnlp gmwl ci e|arktal pltlmr mwwm|ar kf m `|wkflww tamgl! icp l~metal&

_nmr kw cirlf fcr mttplgkmrlb kw rnmr tplykc|w liicprw rc nlat nmyl fcr `llf mwrlb! cp ocfl|fmttplgkmrlb& Rnl icpglw rnmr jltr rnl cemf ipce almykfo kf rnl ikpwr tamgl mpl ylp{ wrpcfo! mfb ylp{

imp%plmgnkfo& Wcel ci rnl wmel plmwcfw rnmr embl nlp t|r |t krn rnl ykcalfgl icp mw acfo mw wnl bkbem{ `l rnl wmel icpglw rnmr gcetla nlp rc plr|pf& Ki! kf nlp gmwl! rnl „cggmwkcfma kfb|aolfglw‛ kw tmpr ci 

nlp l~tlpklfgl mr rnmr rkel Zmfb kr kw fcr flglwwmpka{ wc! kf lylp{ gmwlU! wnl kaa `l tmprkg|ampa{y|aflpm`al rc plr|pfkfo& Plele`lp rnmr rnl ncal kww|l ci bcelwrkg mwwm|ar kw wc rklb |t krnlecrkcfma! g|ar|pma! ecpma! imeka{ mfb w|pykyma kww|lw rnmr ylp{ cirlf rnl cemf gmf‛r galmpa{ wll nmr

kw nmttlfkfo rc nlp&

_nlpl rnl m`|wl nmw `llf tpcacfolb! wcel tw{gncacokwrw nmyl kblfrkiklb rnl plw|arkfo elfrmagcfi|wkcf mw `lkfo Tcwr Rpm|emrkg Wrplww W{fbpcel! rnl fmel icp rnl elfrma gcfi|wkcf w|iilplb `{tpkwcflpw ci mp mfb ncwrmolw&

Wnl kw fcr ockfo rc nmyl {c|p c`hlgrkykr{ ci ykl! lylf rnc|on wnl em{ mttlmp rc nmyl kr c|rmpba{&

Wnl em{ plr|pf mfb almyl wlylpma rkelw `licpl emjkfo rnl ikfma `plmj& _nlrnlp wnl wrm{w cp almylw!

rnc|on! wnl e|wr `l maaclb rc emjl nlp cf blgkwkcf! mfb rplmrlb krn w|ttcpr mfb plwtlgr&

Plmwcfw n{ celf plr|pf mpl f|elpc|w mfb ipce maa alylaw ci mfma{wkw! tlpwcfma g|ar|pma mfb wcgkma&Icp kfwrmfgl8

†  Nl nmw tpcekwlb nlp rnmr nl kw wcpp{! nl kaa flylp bc kr momkf! nl‛w almpflb nkw alwwcf:

†  Nl em{ rnplmrlf rc nmpe nlp tmplfrw! lablpa{ opmfbtmplfrw! crnlp imeka{ ele`lpw! nlp gnkabplf

cp nlpwlai ki wnl bclwf‛r plr|pf:

†  Nl em{ ikfb nlp! mfb tn{wkgmaa{ icpgl nlp rc plr|pf:

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†  Nl em{ rnplmrlf rc gceekr w|kgkbl ki wnl bclwf‛r gcel `mgj! mfb em{ mgr|maa{ emjl mf

mrrletr mr kr! mr almwr wlpkc|w lfc|on rc gcfykfgl nlp rnmr nl plmaa{ ekonr bc kr:†  Nl em{ rnplmrlf rc icpgl nlp gnkabplf rc bpkfj opmemxcfl:

†  Imeka{! ipklfbw! plamrkylw cp ele`lpw ci rnl galpo{ em{ gcfykfgl nlp rc plr|pf:

†  Wnl gmf‛r ikfb wnlarlp icp nlpwlai mfb #cp nlp gnkabplf:

†  Wnl gmf‛r w|ttcpr nlpwlai mfb#cp nlp gnkabplf:

†  Wnl illaw o|kar{ m`c|r `plmjkfo |t rnl imeka{! mfb rnl gnkabplf mfr rc oc `mgj:†  Wnl wrkaa acylw nke mfb mfrw rc `laklyl rnmr nl kaa gnmfol:

†  Wnl h|wr nmw fc gcfikblfgl rnmr wnl gmf emjl kr cf nlp cf! mfb wnl nmw `llf wc kwcamrlb ipce

imeka{ mfb ipklfbw rnmr wnl nmw fc cfl rc nlat nlp&

.Wc|pglb ipce rnl GMIPM Emf|ma+

I|prnlp fcrlw cf rnl bkiilplfr plmwcfw n{ celf wrm{&

 Ilmp cp pltpkwmawRnplmrw ci kfh|p{ mfb mgr|ma ykcalfgl rc rnlewlaylw cp rnlkp gnkabplf ki rnl{ gnccwl rc wltmpmrl tplylfrw

m oplmr f|e`lp ci celf ipce almykfo ykcalfr plamrkcfwnktw& Rnl oplmrlwr pkwj ci ykcalfgl kw mr rnl rkel

nlf m cemf kw mrrletrkfo rc almyl& Emf{ celf `laklyl rnmr almykfo kw fcr flglwwmpka{ ockfo rcemjlp nlp akil cp rnl akil ci nlp gnkabplf wmilp& Emf{ ci rnl elf nc nmyl jkaalb rnlkp ilemal tmprflpw

nmyl bcfl wc mirlp rnl celf nmyl alir cp m`c|r rc almyl& Almykfo pl}|kplw tamffkfo mfbgcetplnlfwkyl aloma kfrlpylfrkcf rc wmil o|mpb ykgrkew mfb rnlkp gnkabplf& .@mp`mpm Nmpr+

Wcgkma kwcamrkcf

M`|wlb celf mpl cirlf mr ncel krn bltlfblfr gnkabplf& Rnlkp tmprflpw em{ blak`lpmrla{ kwcamrl

rnle ipce ipklfbw! imeka{ mfb rnl kblp gcee|fkr{& Emf{ w|pykycpw gnccwl rc nkbl mr ncel `lgm|wlci rnlkp wlfwl ci wnmel ci ykwk`al kfh|pklw! cp rnlkp `lakli rnmr rnl ykcalfgl kw rnlkp im|ar& Mw m plw|ar ci 

rnlkp kwcamrkcf! m`|wlb celf cirlf nmyl fc cfl rc r|pf rc mfb mpl |fmmpl ci mymkam`al wlpykglw&

 Ikfmfgkma bltlfblfgl_celf olflpmaa{ bc fcr nmyl l}|ma mgglww rc rnl wmel lmpfkfo gmtmgkr{ mw elf& Rc almyl rnlkp tmprflpgcfblefw emf{ celf mfb rnlkp gnkabplf rc m w|`wrmfrkma blgakfl kf rnlkp wrmfbmpb ci akykfo&

Wcgkma wrkoem&

_celf cirlf l~tlpklfgl wcgkma tplww|pl fcr rc wltmpmrl mfb bltpkyl rnlkp gnkabplf ci m imrnlp& Rnl{

em{ nmyl plakokc|w plmwcfw ‗ icp l~metal fcr `laklykfo kf bkycpgl&

 Lecrkcfma bltlfblfgl

Akjl celf kf fcf%ykcalfr plamrkcfwnktw! m`|wlb celf mpl olflpmaa{ gceekrrlb rc rnlkp plamrkcfwnkt!acyl rnlkp tmprflp mfb nctl icp m gnmfol kf rnl plamrkcfwnkt& Wcel m`|wlb celf mpl ilmpi|a rnmr rnlkp

tmprflp kaa fcr gctl krn m wltmpmrkcf mfb rnmr nl kaa mrrletr w|kgkbl mw nl nmw cirlf rnplmrlflb&

 Ac wlai%lwrlleEmf{ w|pykycpw! mirlp {lmpw ci `lmrkfow mfb ylp`ma m`|wl! nmyl acwr rnlkp wlai gcfikblfgl mfb bc|`r rnlkpm`kakr{ rc gctl cf rnlkp cf&

Gnkabplf

Rnl liilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf mpl kf rnl fl~r gnmtrlp& .Imgkakrmrcp em{ kwn rc blma krn

rnkw fc cp amrlp+

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Nmfbc|r 7&= ‗ Plmwcfw n{ celf wrm{ kf ykcalfr plamrkcfwnktw

Nmfbc|r 7&0 ‗ _cemf/w alrrlp

Nmfbc|r 7&7 % Lfrpmtelfr

\fblpwrmfbkfo rnl l~tlpklfgl

Kf emf{ ci c|p akylw rnlpl em{ nmyl `llf rkelw nlf l nmyl `llf tclpalww mfb w|`hlgr rc wcelcfllawl/w tclp nkgn ekonr nmyl `llf m`|wkyl&

Mgrkykr{ 2&0 ‗ .m ympkmrkcf ci rnl `plmjkfo tckfr l~lpgkwl kf rnl GMIPM emf|ma+@pmkfwrcpe ipce rnl opc|t rkelw nlf rnl{ lpl kf mf{ jkfb ci wkr|mrkcf ‗ kfrkemrl! cpj! imeka{!\wl cfl ci rnl wkr|mrkcfw mfb mwj rnl tmprkgktmfr

Nc bkb {c| illa3Nc bkb {c| `lnmyl3

Nc bkb {c| plmgr3_n{ bkb {c| wrm{3

Wmfbpm @|ralp m rnlpmtkwr gamkelb rnmr emf{ tlctal! tmprkg|ampa{ celf! nmyl `llf l~tcwlb rc wcelicpe ci kfh|wrkgl! `llf ykgrkekxlb! cttplwwlb cp ilar tclpalww kf rnlkp akylw& Wnl fcrlb rnmr l fllb rc

|wl c|p cf l~tlpklfgl ci kfh|wrkgl! cttplwwkcf! lrg& rc nlat |w letmrnkxl krn ykgrkew ci ykcalfgl&

Mgrkykr{ 2&7 ‗ Rnl gkpgal pcal tam{ mbmtrlb ipce rnl GMIPM Rpmkfkfo Emf|ma `{ Tn{a O& P|`kfwrlkf!

EW_ kf rnl Mttlfbk~ rc rnkw gnmtrlp& Rnl imgkakrmrcp em{ mfr rc ymp{ rnl amfo|mol mfb wcel ci rnl pcalw rc emjl kr mttpctpkmrl rc rnl g|ar|pl ci rnl opc|t& Rnl c`hlgrkyl ci rnl mgrkykr{ kw rc wnc

rnl wrplwwlw mpc|fb m cemf kf mf m`|wkyl plamrkcfwnkt& Lmgn pcal kw okylf m wgpktr kf f|e`lplb cpblpmfb rnl tam{lpw wm{ rnlkp tmprw! icaackfo rnl f|elpkgma cpblp&

Rkel 8 =4 ekf|rlw

Lfw|pl rnmr rnlpl kw bl`pklikfo

Mgrkykr{ 2&2 ‗ Plmb rnl tcle cp mwj m tmprkgktmfr rc plmb rnl tcle ‗ K Ocr Iaclpw Rcbm{ .Nmfbc|r

2&2 +

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Nmfbc|r 7&=

Plmwcfw icp lfrpmtelfr ci celf kf m`|wkyl plamrkcfwnktw

†  Rnl{ em{ illa rnmr rnl{ gmf nlat rnlkp tmprflp&

†  Rnl{ em{ nmyl ac wlai%lwrlle&

† Rnl{ em{ l~tlgr rnlkp tmprflp rc gnmfol&

†  Rnl{ em{ illa mwnmelb mfb#cp cpp{ m`c|r rnl wnmel mfb bkwncfc|p rnmr rlaakfo wcelcfl em{

`pkfo |tcf rnlkp imeka{&†  Rnl{ em{ ilmp rnmr rnl{ kaa `l `amelb icp rnl ykcalfgl&

†  Rnl{ em{ illa rnmr ki rnl{ rp{ rc rlaa wcelcfl! rnmr tlpwcf kaa fcr mfr rc akwrlf&

†  Rnl{ em{ `l ekfkekxkfo rnl wlylpkr{ mfb ipl}|lfg{ ci rnl ykcalfgl mfb krw ketmgr cf rnlkp tn{wkgma

mfb elfrma nlmarn mw m gctkfo wrpmrlo{&†  Rnl{ em{ `l icg|wkfo wcala{ cf w|pykykfo ipce bm{ rc bm{&

†  Rnl{ em{ `l mipmkb `lgm|wl ci rnplmrw embl `{ rnl emf m`c|r rnl gcfwl}|lfgl ci rlaakfo mf{cfl&

†  Rnl{ em{ wketa{ mggltr rnl ykcalfgl mw m pkonr ci bkwgktakfl cp m|rncpkr{ cylp rnle&

†  Rnl{ em{ plmakwrkgmaa{ `l gcfglpflb m`c|r rnl il ctrkcfw ctlf rc rnle ki rnl{ bc rlaa wcelcfl&

†  Rnl{ em{ ilmp icp rnlkp cf mfb rnlkp gnkabplf‛w wmilr{&†  Rnl{ em{ illa mf lgcfcekg flglwwkr{: rnl gcwr ci nc|wkfo mfb gnkab gmpl kw tpcnk`krkyl&

†  Rnl{ em{ illa tplww|pl ipce rnlkp l~rlfblb imeka{! ipklfbw mfb w|ttcpr w{wrlew: rnl{ em{ fcr

jfc nmr nlat kw mymkam`al&

†  Rnl{ em{ acyl rnlkp tmprflp mfb fcr mfr rc bc mf{rnkfo nkgn ekonr n|pr nke .l&o& nmykfo nke

mpplwrlb+&

†  Rnl{ em{ `laklyl rnmr kr kw rnlkp plwtcfwk`kakr{ rc emjl rnl plamrkcfwnkt cpj mfb `amel rnlewlaylw

nlf kr bclwf‛r&†  Rnl{ em{ `laklyl rnmr rnl gnkabplf fllb `crn tmplfrw&

†  Rnl{ em{ `l mgrkfo mggcpbkfo rc rnlkp plakokc|w#g|ar|pma `lakliw&

† Rnl{ em{ imgl aloma pcmb`acgjw&†  Rnl{ em{ ilmp acwkfo g|wrcb{ ci rnl gnkabplf&

†  Rnl{ em{ nmyl fcnlpl lawl rc oc&

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N 7&0 _n{ `mrrlplb celf bcf‛r almyl ncel

Rnkw kw m ylp`mrke gct{ ci m alrrlp ipce m `mrrlplb cemf cf rnl w|`hlgr ci n{ `mrrlplb kylw bcf‛ralmyl ncel&

‑Blmp Lbkrcp!

[c|p Plykl mprkgal ‑_nlf @mrrlplb _kylw Jkaa―! kf w|oolwrkfo wrlplcr{tlw ci nkgn h|pklw gc|ab `lbkwm`|wlb! tlptlr|mrlw mfcrnlp wrlplcr{tl! rnmr `mrrlplb celf wrm{ krn m`|wkyl elf icp w|gn ymo|l

plmwcfw mw ac wlai lwrlle& Ncomwn-

[c| wrm{ `lgm|wl8

=&  Mf{nlpl {c| gmf oc! nl gmf oc& _nlf nl ikfbw {c|! nkw pmol kaa emjl icpelp m`|wl wlle ekab:0&  Nl nmw rcab {c| rnmr ki {c| rp{ rc almyl! nl kaa ikfb {c|p gnkab mr wgncca mfb rmjl kr c|r cf nlp! cp cf

{c|p tlr! cp cf {c|p tmplfrw:7&  [c|p ipklfbw nmyl `lgcel maklfmrlb! mfb {c| nmyl fcnlpl rc oc& Ki {c| bc jfc tlctal nc em{

mggltr {c|! {c| kfiakgr nke cf rnle! mfb il tlctal mpl marp|kwrkg lfc|on rc t|r |t krn rnmr& K

almpflb rnkw rnl nmpb m{ nlf m tcakglemf rcab el rnmr e{ ykcalfr n|w`mfb mw e{ tpc`ale mfb Knmb fc pkonr rc kfiakgr nke cf rnl tcakgl:

2&  Nl aklw gcfykfgkfoa{& Wc {c| p|f mm{ mfb rnl tcakgl p̀kfo {c| ncel mirlp nl nmw ‑l~tamkflb― rcrnle rnmr {c| mpl kfwmfl mfb e|wr `l plr|pflb rc nkw g|wrcb{:

<&  Tpcilwwkcfma ikfb kr nmpb rc `laklyl rnmr m }|klr! mekm`al mfb lb|gmrlb emf c|ab bc w|gn rnkfow!

lwtlgkmaa{ wkfgl nl flylp bclw kr krn krflwwlw mpc|fb:9&  [c|p plakokc|w mbykwlp rlaaw {c| rc icpokyl mfb r|pf rnl crnlp gnllj ‗ rnmr acyl gcf}|lpw maa:

?&  [c| ikfmaa{ olr nke rc oc krn {c| icp gc|fwlaakfo mfb rnl gc|fwlaacp rlaaw rnmr {c| rnmr {c| `crne|wr rp|wr mfb gcee|fkgmrl& Cylp rnl ipmfrkg! w|ppltrkrkc|w tpcrlwrw! nmr {c| rcab rnl gc|fwlaacpkf gcfikblfgl kw pltlmrlb rc {c|p n|w`mfb! nc plmgrw krn }|klr! kfrlaakolfr gcfglpf& Rnl wmrkwiklb

gc|fwlaacp rnlf rlaaw nke {c| nmb mww|elb nl c|ab plmgr krn mfolp mfb ykcalfgl& Rnl gc|fwlaacpwlfbw {c| cf {c|p m{ krn mfb mw wccf mw {c|p n|w`mfb olrw {c| macfl nl `lmrw rnl akykfo bm{

akonrw c|r ci {c|:>&  [c| ocr kfrc rnl ik~ `lgm|wl {c| flylp l~tlgrlb m }|klr! mekm`al emf rc `l m`|wkyl& Rnl ikpwr rkelw

nl bkb kr nkw rlmpw mirlpmpbw embl {c| wcppklp icp nke rnmf icp {c|pwlai& Wcelnc kr wllelb rc `l

{c|p im|ar! `lgm|wl {c| bkbf‛r acyl cp rp|wr cp w|ttcpr nke lfc|on:;&  Amrlp! nlf rnl gc|fwlaacp mopllw kr mw {c|p im|ar! maa {c| jfc kw {c|‛yl rpklb lylp{rnkfo mfb

K mw a|gj{& Rnlpl mpl {lmpw mfb n|fbplbw ci ekalw `lrllf el mfb e{ l~%n|w`mfb fc! `|r K wrkaa

plele`lp krn wtlgkma `krrlpflww rnl tw{gnkmrpkwr! bcgrcpw! mfb tcakglelf nc rcab el rnmr K e|wrlfhc{ w|gn rplmrelfr! cp Kf c|ab flylp t|r |t krn kr&―

Wc|pgl GMIPM Emf|ma

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Nmfbc|r 7&7 ‑_n{ Bcf‛r [c| H|wr Almyl3― % m pcal tam{% Tn{a O& P|`kfwrlkf! EW_

Bkplgrkcfw8 Rnl lfgacwlb wgpktr gmf `l |wlb krn wk~rllf tlctal& Nmfbc|r pcalw .fcr rnl lfrkpl wgpktr+mfb am`law rc tam{lpw mfb mwj rnle rc icpe m gkpgal krn rc celf kf rnl glfrpl& Mwj lmgn tlpwcf rcplmb rnlkp akfl f|e`lp mfb wgpktr kf cpblp& Kr kw ketcprmfr rc plmb rnl akfl f|e`lpw kf cpblp rc jllt rnl

gcfrkf|kr{ ci rnl wjkr& @l w|pl rc tpcglww tlctalw plmgrkcfw rc rnl wjkr `licpl t|pw|kfo mf{ lb|gmrkcfmaocmaw&

_n{ bcf‛r {c| h|wr almyl3 =9 Tlpwcf Wjkr

 Ki {c| nmyl alww rnmf =9 tmprkgktmfrw! rpmkflpw nmyl m f|e`lp ci ctrkcfw8 rnl{ gmf rmjl c|r glprmkfpcalw! mwj tmprkgktmfrw rc rmjl ecpl rnmf cfl pcal! mfb#cp rmjl |t m pcal rnlewlaylw+

=&@mrrlplp = K acyl {c|&0&_cemf K acyl {c|&

7&Galpo{ „Rka blmrn bc {c| tmpr&2&@mrrlplp 0 [c|‛pl ekfl! {c| ̀ lacfo rc el&

<&Ecrnlp K rcab {c| nl mw fc occb&9&@mrrlplp 0 [c|‛pl wr|tkb&?&_cemf K‛e wcpp{&

>&@mrrlplp 0 K tpcekwl kr kaa flylp nmttlf momkf&;&Imrnlp Ki K ikfb c|r nl amkb m nmfb cf {c| K‛aa jkaa nke&

=4& Ipklfb Nl‛w wc fkgl&==&Wkwrlp [c| gmf wrm{ icp m il bm{w& K h|wr bcf‛r nmyl rnl

pcce icp {c| `l{cfb rnmr&

=0& @lflikrw Molfg{ _cpjlp K e|wr nmyl rnl imrnlpw fmel rc gcaalgr GnkabW|ttcpr cp {c| gmf‛r olr Kfgcel W|ttcpr

=7& @mrrlplp = K‛e wcpp{&=2&Amfbacpb Ki K olr mf{ ecpl gcetamkfrw ipce rnl flkon`c|pw K‛e& rnpckfo {c| c|r=<& Letac{lp Ki {c| ekww mf{ ecpl cpj K‛aa nmyl rc alr {c| oc&

=9& Tcakglemf Kr‛w nkw nc|wl rcc& Nl gmf wrm{ ki nl mfrw rc&=?& @mrrlplp = [c|‛pl |oa{&

=>& Galpo{ [c| wnc|ab `l m occb kil mfb c`l{ {c|‛pl n|w m̀fb&=;& _cemf K‛aa rp{ rc bc ̀ lrrlp fl~r rkel&04& @mrrlplp 0 Ki {c| almyl {c| kaa flylp wll rnl jkbw momkf&

0=& Ipklfb _nmr bkb {c| bc rc emjl nke wc emb300& Rnlpmtkwr _nmr bkb {c| bc ̀ licpl nl nkr {c|3

07& Ecrnlp [c| embl {c|p ̀ lb fc akl kf kr&02& Bm|onrlp Ki {c| cf‛r almyl! K‛e p|ffkfo mm{&0<& Ipklfb K‛e wcpp{ K bcf‛r nmyl pcce icp {c| rc wrm{&

09& Rnlpmtkwr Rnkw kw plmaa{ m empkrma kww|l& K plmaa{ fllb rc wll {c| `crn rcolrnlp0?& @lflikrw Molfg{ _cpjlp [c|‛pl cpjkfo3- [c| e|wr pltcpr maa kfgcel& K‛e

fcr w|pl {c|‛aa `l lakok`al&0>& Wcf [c| wr|tkb `krgn&0;& Letac{lp Ki nl wncw |t nlpl emjkfo m wglfl momkf! K‛aa nmyl&

rc alr {c| oc74& @mrrlplp = Fc cfl lawl kaa lylp mfr {c|&

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7=&Galpo{ Nl‛w m tkaamp ci rnl gcee|fkr{ ‗ m yca|frllp krn c|p gcee|fkr{ glfrpl&70&Imrnlp K‛e wcpp{ ̀ m`{! K h|wr bcf‛r nmyl mf{ l~rpm ecfl{ rc okyl {c| pkonr fc&

77& Ipklfb _n{ bcf‛r {c| almyl nke&72& Wcf K nmrl rnkw wnlarlp&

7<&Amfbacpb [c| cl el rc ecfrnw plfr&&79&Pli|ol _cpjlp K‛e wcpp{ ‗ fc emal gnkabplf cylp =7 {lmpw cab mpl

maaclb wrm{ kf rnl wnlarlp& [c| kaa nmyl rc ikfb nke

wcel crnlp tamgl cp fcr wrm{ nlpl mr maa&7?& Ecrnlp Rnlpl mpl wcel rnkfow m kil fllbw rc t|r |t krn& K

wrccb `{ {c|p imrnlp&7>& @mrrlplp = Ki {c| almyl K‛e ockfo rc jkaa e{%wlai&7;&Rnlpmtkwr _nmr mpl {c| olrrkfo ipce rnkw plamrkcfwnkt&

24& _cemf Ki cfa{ K nmbf‛r………2=& Letac{lp Rlaa nke rc wrct gmaakfo nlpl&

20& Tcakglemf [c| gmf almyl ki {c| mfr rc&27& Wkwrlp K alr {c| wrm{ amwr rkel mfb {c| cfa{ lfr ̀ mgj rc nke&22& _cemf _nlpl gmf K oc3

2<& @mrrlplp = Ki {c| almyl K kaa jkaa {c|&29& Pli|ol cpjlp K‛e wcpp{! l‛pl i|aa&

2?& _cemf Nl‛aa ikfb el nlplylp K oc&2>& Galpo{ Bkycpgl kw momkfwr c|p ̀ lakliw&2;& Letac{lp [c|‛pl ikplb-

<4& Bm|onrlp E|e! K ekww e{ ipklfbw&<=& Wcf K ekww e{ bmb& K mfr rc oc ncel&

<0& Bm|onrlp K mfr rc oc ncel&<7& @mrrlplp 0 K‛e ockfo rc jkaa {c|&<2& Tcakglemf Ki K olr gmaalb c|r nlpl cfl ecpl rkel K‛e mpplwrkfo {c| ̀ crn&

<<& _cemf Nl‛w ockfo rc jkaa el&<9& @mrrlplp = _n{ bkb {c| emjl el bc kr3

<?& @mrrlplp 0 K acylb {c|&<>& Maa _n{ bcf‛r {c| h|wr almyl3-.l~gltr kfflp rnpll tlctal+

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Nmfbc|r 7&2 Tcle

K Ocr Iaclpw Rcbm{&&& @{ Tm|alrrl Jlaa{

K ocr iaclpw rcbm{&Kr mwf/r e{ `kprnbm{ cp mf{ crnlp wtlgkma bm{&_l nmb c|p ikpwr mpo|elfr amwr fkonr!

Mfb nl wmkb m acr ci gp|la rnkfow rnmr plmaa{ n|prel&

K jfc nl kw wcpp{ mfb bkbf/r elmf rnl rnkfownl wmkb&@lgm|wl nl wlfr el iaclpw rcbm{&

K ocr iaclpw rcbm{&

Kr mwf/r c|p mffkylpwmp{ cp mf{ crnlp wtlgkma bm{&Amwr fkonr! nl rnpl el kfrc m maa mfb wrmprlb rc gncjl el&Kr wllelb akjl m fkonrempl&

K gc|abf/r `laklyl kr mw plma&K cjl |t rnkw ecpfkfo wcpl mfb `p|kwlb maa cylp&

K jfc nl e|wr `l wcpp{&@lgm|wl nl wlfr el iaclpw rcbm{&

K ocr iaclpw rcbm{!Mfb kr mwf/r Ecrnlp/w Bm{ cp mf{ crnlp wtlgkma bm{&

Amwr fkonr! nl `lmr el |t momkf&Mfb kr mw e|gn cpwl rnmf maa rnl crnlp rkelw&Ki K almyl nke! nmr kaa K bc3

Nc kaa K rmjl gmpl ci e{ jkbw3_nmr m`c|r ecfl{3

K/e mipmkb ci nke mfb wgmplb rc almyl&@|r K jfc nl e|wr `l wcpp{&@lgm|wl nl wlfr el iaclpw rcbm{&

K ocr iaclpw rcbm{&

Rcbm{ mw m ylp{ wtlgkma bm{&Kr mw rnl bm{ ci e{ i|flpma&Amwr fkonr! nl ikfmaa{ jkaalb el&

Nl `lmr el rc blmrn&Ki cfa{ K nmb omrnlplb lfc|on gc|pmol

mfb wrplforn rc almyl nke!K c|ab fcr nmyl ocrrlf iaclpw&&&rcbm{&

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Gnmtrlp 2 Liilgrw ci Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl cf Gnkabplf

Olflpma MkeRc okyl tmprkgktmfrw kficpemrkcf m`c|r rnl liilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf kf O|{mfm

Wtlgkikg C`hlgrkylw @{ rnl lfb ci rnkw wlwwkcf! tmprkgktmfrw wnc|ab `l m`al rc

=& 

Bkwg|ww rnl liilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf0&  Plamrl liilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf rnl gnkabplf nc krflww rnl ykcalfgl7&  Bkwg|ww rnl liilgrw cf rnl mb|ar w|pykycpw

2&= _nmr gnkabplf wll

@pklikfo FcrlwGnkabplf! plompbalww ci nlrnlp rnl{ nmyl l~tlpklfglb m`|wl bkplgra{ ! mpl miilgrlb `{ ykcalfgl kf rnl

ncel& Gnkabplf nc krflww m`|wl bkwtam{ rnl wmel lecrkcfma plwtcfwlw mw gnkabplf nc nmyl `llftn{wkgmaa{ mfb lecrkcfmaa{ m`|wlb rnlewlaylw& Kr kw ketcprmfr rnmr tmplfrw mpl kficpelb ci rnlwl liilgrw

wkfgl emf{ celf nc mpl m`|wlb illa rpmttlb `lgm|wl ci rnl fllb rc gmpl icp rnl gnkabplf mfb emf{

m`|wkyl elf `laklyl rnmr cfgl rnlkp ykcalfgl kw fcr rmpolrlb mr rnl gnkabplf! rnl gnkabplf c|ab fcr `lmiilgrlb&

Mgrkykr{ 2&=8 Bc rnpll iakt gnmprw krn nlmbkfow %[c|fo Gnkabplf! Cablp Gnkabplf! Mb|ar w|pykycpw&Wtakr rnl tmprkgktmfrw kfrc rnpll opc|tw mfb mwj rnle rc maj mpc|fb rc pkrl bcf rnl liilgrw ci 

bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf&

Rkel8 =< ekf|rlw

@pklikfo Fcrlw gcfrkf|lb

Gnkabplf akykfo kf ykcalfr ncelw em{ nmyl krflwwlb ylp`ma rnplmrw ci kfh|p{! c`hlgrw rnpcf!

iacookfow! rnplmrw krn lmtcfw! wl~|ma rcpr|pl! w|kgkbl mrrletrw mfb e|pblp& Gnkabplf mpl fcr cfa{krflwwlw rc rnl ykcalfgl `|r em{ mawc `l mwwm|arlb b|pkfo ykcalfr kfgkblfrw&

//Mr rkelw rnl tmkf kf e{ gnkabplf/w l{lw nm|frw el& _l bcf/r cirlf rmaj m`c|r rncwl {lmpw `|r rnlpl mpl

cggmwkcfw nlf l bc! `lgm|wl l nmyl rc! nl nmw gm|wlb wc e|gn bmemol rc rnl gnkabplf& K illa mw ki!

lwtlgkmaa{ rnl lablwr gnkab! rnl{ lpl pc``lb ci rnlkp gnkabnccb& Rnpc|on nkw ykcalfgl rnl{ acwr rnl

m`kakr{ rc rp|wr mfb acyl nke mfb rnmr iaclb cf& Nl nmb fc l~g|wl! fcr lylf rnl l~g|wl ci `lkfobp|fj&// 

.Yckglw ci W|pykycpw! gkrlb kf Lmwrlma! T& =;;9+&

 Emf{ tmplfrw ekfkekxl cp blf{ rnl tplwlfgl ci gnkabplf nkal rnl imrnlpw#elf mwwm|ar rnl ecrnlpw&

 Nclylp! kfrlpyklw krn gnkabplf krn m`|wkyl emalw mpc|fb rnle plylma rnmr rnl{ nmyl wllf mfb 

nlmpb! mfb gmf blwgpk`l blrmkalb mggc|frw ci ykcalfr `lnmykc|pw rnmr rnlkp ecrnlp cp imrnlp flylp plmakwlb rnmr rnl{ nmb krflwwlb& .Hmiil! _cail ) _kawcf % Gnkabplf ci @mrrlplb _celf! =;;4+

M`|wkyl `lnmykc|p kw almpflb `lnmykc|p& Mr mf lmpa{ mol! gnkabplf pmkwlb kf mf m`|wkyl lfykpcfelfr

em{ blylact tmrrlpw kf rnlkp gcfb|gr rnmr ekekg rnl r{tlw ci `lnmykc|pma gnmpmgrlpkwrkgw ci `mrrlplpw mfbykgrkew& Rnl alwwcfw rnl{ almpf ipce l~tlpklfgkfo cp c`wlpykfo m`|wl mggcetmf{ rnle kfrc mb|arnccb&Mw mb|arw! ilemalw cirlf blylact emal bkwrp|wr! flomrkyl mrrkr|blw rcmpbw emppkmol! mfb#cp mggltr

ykcalfgl cp crnlp icpew ci m`|wl mw fmr|pma& Wcel emalw .rnc|on emf{ kaa nmyl kfrlpylflb cf mr almwrcfl cggmwkcf rc wrct rnl m`|wl+ kblfrki{ kfgplmwkfoa{ krn rnl `mrrlplp mfb mbctr emf{ ci rnl wmel

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`lakliw m`c|r celf! wl~ pcalw mfb rnl |wl ci gcfrpca rmgrkgw&

Gnkabplf ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl wrmfb m oplmrlp gnmfgl icp l~tlpklfgkfo floalgr& Bltplwwkcf! ilmp!ip|wrpmrkcf ! nlatalwwflww mfb mfolp em{ wlpyl mw c`wrmgalw icp wcel `mrrlplb celf nc mpl rp{kfo rc

icwrlp f|pr|pkfo plamrkcfwnktw krn rnlkp gnkabplf& Mirlp nmykfo nmb rnlkp ic|fbmrkcf blwrpc{lb `{bcelwrkg m`|wl! gnkabplf ipce m`|wkyl nc|wlncabw ikfb kr bkiikg|ar rc blylact rp|wr! wlai%gcfikblfgl! cptcwkrkyl wlai%kemolw& Rnl{ cirlf `lgcel me`kymalfr mfb blwlfwkrkwlb rc m`|wl& Emf{ rkelw rnl

gnkabplf/w kfkrkma w{etmrn{ icp rnl ykgrke lylfr|maa{ mflw c|r ci bkwplwtlgr& Rnkw cgg|pw lwtlgkmaa{nlf blilfwkyl elmw|plw rmjlf `{ rnl ykgrke mpl fcr mttmplfr rc rnl gnkabplf& Gnkabplf ipce bcelwrkg

ykcalfr nc|wlncabw mpl mr m oplmrlp pkwj ci `lgcekfo rnl fl~r olflpmrkcf ci m`|wlpw&

.Mbmtrlb ipce Gnkabplf ci Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl `{ rnl Elrpctcakrmf Jkfo Gc|fr{ Gc|fgka `{ Glfrpl icp Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl

Tplylfrkcf! Wmf Bkloc&+

 Nmfbc|rw

 N 2&= Liilgrw ci Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl cf Gnkabplf kf \J  N 2&0Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mfb gnkabplf kf \J 

2&0 @lnmykc|pw ci Gnkabplf nc krflww bcelwrkg ykcalfglLiilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf ipce GMIPM Emf|ma

Rnl liilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf mpl kbl mfb ympklb& M gnkab ekonr8

†  `l#mttlmp ilmpi|a % ekonr `l l~tplwwlb krn plompbw rc fl wkr|mrkcfw! cp kf plwtcfwl rc w|bblf

fckwlw mfb ecylelfrw:†  nmyl m ac wlai lwrlle:

†  l~tplww mfolp % /wtkaakfo c|r/ kf olflpma cp bkplgrlb rcmpbw tmprkg|amp tlctal cp c`hlgrw#tcwwlwwkcfw:

†  l~tlpklfgl nlatalwwflww mfb o|kar:

†  wnc wrplww:

†  `l#mttlmp kfwlg|pl % ekonr `l l~tplwwlb rnpc|on tnc`kmw mfb mf~klrklw:†  `l wlgplrkyl:

†  l~tplww#kfbkgmrl wnmel:

†  `l bltplwwlb % rc rnl l~rlfr ci `lkfo w|kgkbma:

†  kfbkgmrl m amgj ci tcwkrkyl kblfrkr{ mfb wlai kemol:

†  `|aa{ tllpw:

†  ploplww rc kfmttpctpkmrl mol `lnmykc|pw w|gn mw lrrkfo rnl `lb:

†  fcr w|ggllb mr wgncca % kfm`kakr{ rc gcfglfrpmrl cp m`wcp` kficpemrkcf! |fm`al rc icg|w! w|bblf

blgakfl kf tlpicpemfgl! w|bblf tlpkcbw ci fcr bckfo ncelcpj mfb accjkfo rkplb lrg&

.Wc|pgl8 Rplaim H&! Rnl Gceecf Rnplmb Rplaim H&! Fmrkcfma Gnkab Tpcrlgrkcf O|kblakflw mfb kf rnl

GMIPM Emf|ma+

 Nmfbc|r N2& 7 _m{w kf nkgn gnkabplf mpl bpmf kfrc bcelwrkg ykcalfgl Nmfbc|r N2& 2& Liilgrw ci Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf

Rnl m{ rnmr bcelwrkg ykcalfgl miilgrw gnkabplf bkiilpw mggcpbkfo rc8

kfrlfwkr{ mfb ipl}|lfg{ ci m`|wlrnlkp molrnlkp olfblp

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rnlkp cf gctkfo elgnmfkwewrnlkp pcal krnkf rnl imeka{

rnl mymkam`kakr{ ci# rnlkp plamrkcfwnkt krn rnl fcf%m`|wkfo tmprflpcrnlp pcal ecblaw#w|ttcpr mymkam`al l&o& ipce plamrkylw! ipklfbw

.rmjlf ipce rnl GMIPM Emf|ma mfb mbmtrlb wakonra{+

Wkfgl maa gnkabplf plmgr rc rnlkp lfykpcfelfr kf bkiilplfr m{w! fcr maa gnkabplf ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl

kaa `lgcel `mrrlplpw cp rcalpmrl m`|wl&2&7 Liilgrw cf Mb|ar W|pykycpw

Wcel gnkabplf mw rnl{ opc kfrc mb|arw mfb `lgcel mmpl ci rnl liilgrw ci rnl bcelwrkg ykcalfgl kfrnlkp gnkabnccb kaa plgcylp& Nclylp! wcel mb|ar w|pykycpw ekonr l~tlpklfgl rnl icaackfo 8%

†  Nkonlp wrplww alylaw:

†  Nkonlp alylaw ci mf~klr{! bltplwwkcf mfb tw{gnkmrpkg kaaflww:

†  Ikyl rkelw ecpl akjla{ rc gceekr w|kgkbl:

†  Ipl}|lfra{ tplwlfr rc elbkgma gmplokylpw krn wcemrkg gcetamkfrw w|gn mw nlmbmgnlw:

†  L~tlpklfgl rkgl mw emf{ ekwgmppkmolw:

†  Nmyl plb|glb gctkfo mfb tpc`ale%wcaykfo wjkaaw:

†  BY w|pykycpw mpl ecpl akjla{ rc8†  `l wcgkmaa{ kwcamrlb:

†  |wl magcnca mfb bp|ow: mfb

†  m`|wl bltlfblfr gnkabplf&

.Rmjlf ipce  @l{cfb Rnlwl _maaw! =;>>+

Emf{ mb|ar gnkabplf nmyl cylpgcel rnl tmkf ci rnl gnkabnccb % lwtlgkmaa{ mirlp rnl m`|wlp nmw `lgcelcab& Wcel mb|arw nmyl |wlb rnlkp wtkpkr|makr{ rc nlat rnle rc nlma ipce rnl rpm|em ci m gnkabnccb&

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N 2&= Liilgrw ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl cf gnkabplf

Rnl ikpwr fmrkcfma w|pyl{ kf rnl \J krn celf nc nmyl l~tlpklfglb bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mwjlb rnlenmr rnl{ wm mw rnl liilgrw cf rnlkp gnkabplf& Rnlkp plwtcfwlw plylmalb rnmr8

Ecpl rnmf ic|p ikirnw wmkb rnmr rnl{ rnc|onr rnlpl nmb `llf acfo amwrkfo liilgrw cf rnlkp gnkabplf:

Maecwr maa rnl ecrnlpw wmkb rnmr rnlkp gnkabplf nmb wllf rnle gp{kfo mfb |twlr mirlp rnl ykcalfr kfgkblfr:

M }|mprlp wmkb rnlkp ykcalfr tmprflp nmb mawc tn{wkgmaa{ mwwm|arlb rnl gnkabplf: mfb wlylpma wmkb rnlgnkabplf nmb `llf wl~|maa{ mwwm|arlb:

=8=4 ecrnlpw nmb `llf wl~|maa{ m`|wlb kf ipcfr ci rnl gnkabplf:

M rnkpb wmkb rnl{ `laklylb rnmr rnlkp gnkabplf lpl ykcalfr cp mooplwwkyl: mfb m rnkpb rnmr rnlkp gnkabplflpl nmpb rc gcfrpca:

Maecwr m rnkpb rnc|onr rnlkp gnkabplf amgjlb wlai%lwrlle kf rnl acfo rlpe mfb m }|mprlp rnmr rnl gnkabplfnmb tpc`alew mpc|fb rp|wrkfo tlctalw mfb icpekfo plamrkcfwnktw&

.Wc|pglb ipce GMIPM Emf|ma+

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N2&0 Bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mfb gnkabplf .kf rnl \J+

Plele`lpkfo rnmr =82 celf kaa l~tlpklfgl bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mfb m`|wl mr wcel tckfr kf rnlkp akylw!gcfwkblp rnl ketakgmrkcfw ci rnl icaackfo plwlmpgn ikfbkfow kf rnl \J! mfb rnlkp liilgrw cf gnkabplf8

_nlf rnl gc|tal nmyl m imeka{! kf ;4, ci kfgkblfrw rnl gnkabplf mpl kf rnl wmel cp fl~r pcce:

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N2&7 _m{w gnkabplf mpl bpmf kfrc bcelwrkg ykcalfgl

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N 2&2 Liilgrw cf Gnkabplf

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7& Kfkrkma gcfrmgr/Wlaa/ {c|pwlai mw m jfcalbolm`al! |fblpwrmfbkfo mfb gmpkfo tlpwcf nc kw kaakfo rc nlat mfb mfrw

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†  Elfrma kaaflww mw m plw|ar ci bltplwwkcf cp mw m elmfw rc gctl

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Mprkgal =8 Maa tlctal mpl `cpf ipll mfb l}|ma kf rlpew ci bkofkr{ mfb pkonrw! mfb mpl `cpf krn plmwcf mfbgcfwgklfgl wc wnc|ab mgr rcmpbw lmgn crnlp kf m wtkpkr ci |fkr{& Mprkgal 08 Lylp{cfl kw lfrkralb rc rnlwl pkonrwmfb ipllbcew plompbalww ci pmgl! gcac|p! wl~! amfo|mol! plakokcf! tcakrkgma cp crnlp ctkfkcf! fmrkcfma cp wcgkmacpkokf! tpctlpr{! `kprn cp crnlp wrmr|w: mfb plompbalww ci rnl tcakrkgma! h|pkwbkgrkcfma cp kfrlpfmrkcfma wrmr|w ci rnlgc|frp{ cp rlppkrcp{ rc nkgn m tlpwcf `lacfow & Mprkgal 78 Lylp{cfl nmw rnl pkonr rc akil! ak`lpr{ mfb wlg|pkr{&Mprkgal 28 Fc%cfl gmf `l nlab kf wamylp{ cp wlpykr|bl& Mprkgal <8 Fc%cfl wnmaa `l w|`hlgrlb rc rcpr|pl cp gp|la!kfn|emf cp blopmbkfo rplmrelfr cp t|fkwnelfr& Mprkgal 9 ) ? 8 Lylp{cfl nmw l}|ma pkonr rc tpcrlgrkcf ipce rnlam& Mprkgal ;8 Fc%cfl wnc|ab `l w|`hlgrlb rc mp`krpmp{ mpplwr! blrlfrkcf cp l~kal& Mprkgal =98 Maa ci i|aa molnmyl rnl pkonr rc empp{! lfrlp kfrc rnmr emppkmol krn ipll mfb i|aa gcfwlfr! mfb nmyl m imeka{ mfb lylp{cfl kwlfrkralb rc l}|ma pkonrw kf rnl emppkmol mfb mr kr‛w `plmjbcf& Mprkgal =?8 Lylp{cfl nmw rnl pkonr rc cftpctlpr{ macfl mfb krn crnlpw mfb fc%cfl gmf `l mp`krpmpka{ bltpkylb ci rnmr tpctlpr{& Mprkgal => ) =;8

Lylp{cfl nmw rnl pkonr rc ipllbce ci rnc|onr! gcfwgklfgl mfb plakokcf! mfb ipllbce ci ctkfkcf mfb l~tplwwkcf %kfga|bkfo ipllbce rc gnmfol ctkfkcf! `lakli mfb plakokcf macfl cp kf m gcee|fkr{& Mprkgal 078 Lylp{cfl nmw rnlpkonr rc cpj! rc ipll gnckgl ci letac{elfr mfb occb cpj gcfbkrkcfw: rc l}|ma tm{ icp l}|ma cpj: mfb icptm{elfr rnmr lfw|plw bkofkr{ ci akil& Mprkgal 028 Lylp{cfl nmw rnl pkonr rc plwr mfb alkw|pl mw laa mw akekrmrkcfwci cpjkfo nc|pw mfb ncakbm{w krn tm{& Mprkgal 0<8 Lylp{cfl nmw rnl pkonr rc m wrmfbmpb ci akykfo rnmr lfw|plboccb nlmarn mfb laa%`lkfo& Mprkgal 098 Lylp{cfl nmw rnl pkonr rc lb|gmrkcf& Mprkgal 0?8 Lylp{cfl nmw rnlpkonr rc iplla{ tmprkgktmrl kf rnl g|ar|pma akil ci rnl gcee|fkr{&Wc|pgl GMIPM Rpmkfkfo Emf|ma

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 N9& 0 Gcfylfrkcf cf rnl lakekfmrkcf ci maa icpew ci bkwgpkekfmrkcf momkfwr celf

 

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Mprkgal =9

Wrmrl Tmprklw wnmaa rmjl maa mttpctpkmrl elmw|plw rc lakekfmrl bkwgpkekfmrkcf momkfwr celf kf maaemrrlpw plamrkfo rc emppkmol mfb imeka{ plamrkcfw mfb kf tmprkg|amp wnmaa lfw|pl! cf m `mwkw ci l}|makr{ ci 

elf mfb celf8

†  Rnl wmel pkonr rc lfrlp kfrc emppkmol:

†  Rnl wmel pkonr iplla{ rc gnccwl m wtc|wl mfb rc lfrlp kfrc emppkmol cfa{ krn rnlkp ipll mfb i|aa

gcfwlfr:

†  Rnl wmel pkonrw mfb plwtcfwk`kakrklw b|pkfo emppkmol mfb mr krw bkwwca|rkcf:

†  Rnl wmel pkonrw mfb plwtcfwk`kakrklw mw tmplfr! kpplwtlgrkyl ci rnlkp emrlpkma wrmr|w! kf emrrlpw

plamrkfo rc rnlkp gnkabplf: kf maa gmwlw rnl kfrlplwr ci rnl gnkabplf wnmaa `l tmpmec|fr:†  Rnl wmel pkonrw rc blgkbl iplla{ mfb plwtcfwk`a{ cf rnl f|e`lp mfb wtmgkfo ci rnlkp gnkabplf mfb rc

nmyl mgglww rc rnl kficpemrkcf! lb|gmrkcf mfb elmfw rc lfm`al rnle rc l~lpgkwl rnlwl pkonrw:†  Rnl wmel pkonrw mfb plwtcfwk`kakrklw krn plompb rc o|mpbkmfwnkt! mpbwnkt! rp|wrllwnkt mfb

mbctrkcf ci gnkabplf! cp wkekamp kfwrkr|rkcfw nlpl rnlwl gcfgltrw l~kwr kf fmrkcfma alokwamrkcf: kf maagmwlw rnl kfrlplwrw ci rnl gnkabplf wnmaa `l tmpmec|fr:

†  Rnl wmel tlpwcfma pkonrw mw n|w`mfb mfb kil! kfga|bkfo rnl pkonr rc gnccwl m imeka{ fmel! m

tpcilwwkcfma mfb mf cgg|tmrkcf:†  Rnl wmel pkonrw icp `crn wtc|wlw kf plwtlgr ci rnlf cflpwnkt! mg}|kwkrkcf! emfmolelfr!

mbekfkwrpmrkcf! lfhc{elfr mfb bkwtcwkrkcf ci tpctlpr{! nlrnlp ipll ci gnmpol cp icp m yma|m`algcfwkblpmrkcf:

Rnl `lrpcrnma mfb rnl emppkmol ci m gnkab wnmaa nmyl fc aloma liilgr mfb maa flglwwmp{ mgrkcf! kfga|bkfoalokwamrkcf! wnmaa `l rmjlf rc wtlgki{ m ekfke|e mol icp emppkmol mfb rct emjl rnl plokwrpmrkcf ci 

emppkmolw kf mf ciikgkma plokwrp{ gcet|awcp{&

Wc|pgl GMIPM Rpmkfkfo Emf|ma

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N9&7 Blgampmrkcf cf rnl lakekfmrkcf ci ykcalfgl momkfwr celf ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Mprkgal 7

_celf mpl lfrkralb rc rnl l}|ma lfhc{elfr mfb tpcrlgrkcf ci maa n|emf pkonrw mfb i|fbmelfrma ipllbcew kf rnltcakrkgma! lgcfcekg! wcgkma! g|ar|pma! gkyka cp mf{ crnlp iklab& Rnlwl pkonrw kfga|bl8

Rnl pkonr rc akil&

Rnl pkonr rc l}|makr{&

Rnl pkonr rc ak`lpr{ mfb wlg|pkr{ ci tlpwcf&

Rnl pkonr rc l}|ma tpcrlgrkcf ipce rnl am&

Rnl pkonr rc `l ipll ipce maa icpew ci bkwgpkekfmrkcf&

Rnl pkonr rc `l nkonlwr wrmfbmpb mrrmkfm`al ci tn{wkgma mfb elfrma nlmarn&

Rnl pkonr rc h|wr mfb imyc|pm`al gcfbkrkcfw ci cpj&

Rnl pkonr fcr rc `l w|`hlgrlb rct rcpr|pl cp crnlp gp|la! kfn|emf cp blopmbkfo rplmrelfr cp t|fkwnelfr&

Wc|pgl GMIPM Rpmkfkfo Emf|ma

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N9&2 W|eemp{ ci rnl Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr ‗ O|{mfm Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr = ;;9

Rnl Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr ci O|{mfm mw tmwwlb kf Blgle`lp! =;;9 kf cpblp rc okyl aloma tpcrlgrkcf

rc tlpwcfw nc nmyl w|iilplb m`|wl cp mpl mr pkwj ci w|iilpkfo bcelwrkg m`|wl& Rnl l~tamfmrkcf okylfnlpl mw cpkokfmaa{ tplwlfrlb kf rnl almialr "Rnl Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr 8 Nc gmf kr nlat {c| cp m

 ipklfb" t|`akwnlb `{ rnl \FBT! O|{mfm& g =;;?

_nc olrw tpcrlgrkcf |fblp rnl Mgr3

Mf{ tlpwcf nc kw w|iilpkfo bcelwrkg m`|wl kw m|rcemrkgmaa{ lakok`al rc `l tpcrlgrlb `{ rnl Mgr& Mf{m`|wlb tlpwcf! mb|ar cp gnkab gmf olr tpcrlgrkcf ipce8

† M wtc|wl! ikmfgl.l+ cp plt|rlb wtc|wl! cp tmprflp krn nce rnl{ akyl

† Mf{cfl nc akylw kf rnl nc|wlncab rcbm{ cp nmw akylb kf rnl tmwr! `|r fcr rlfmfrw cp letac{llw

|falww rnlpl lpl wl~|ma plamrkcfw krn rnle† M plamrkyl

† Mf{ tlpwcf krn nce rnl ykgrke nmw nmb m wl~|ma plamrkcfwnkt

=&_nmr kw m`|wl3

Rnl cpbw rnmr mpl |wlb rc blwgpk`l m`|wl mpl kaa rplmrelfr! ykcamrkcf! ecalwrmrkcf! wlb|grkcf mfb`lrpm{ma& Kr fllb fcr `l cfa{ tn{wkgma ykcalfgl&

M`|wl gmf mawc `l "Tw{gncacokgma M`|wl" Rnkw elmfw mf{ mgrkykr{ nkgn tlpwkwrlfra{ n|ekakmrlw rnlykgrke! bkwncfc|pw nlp cp nke! cp aclpw rnlkp wlai lwrlle akjl 8

† Fcr maackfo rnle rc nmfbal rnlkp cf rnkfow cp tpctlpr{

† @amgjemkakfo

† _mrgnkfo cylp rnle kf m m{ nkgn kw rnplmrlfkfo

† Fcr maackfo rnl ykgrke rc lmr cp wallt laa

† Emfkt|amrkfo rnl gnkabplf

† Gm|wkfo rnl ykgrke lecrkcfma mocf{

Kf cpblp rc }|maki{ icp tpcrlgrkcf |fblp rnl Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr! rnl tlpwcf nmw rc nmyl w|iilplbm`|wl cp nmpmwwelfr&

_nmr kw nmpmwwelfr3Nmpmwwelfr kw nlf wcelcfl rnplmrlfw cp kfrkekbmrlw mfcrnlp tlpwcf `{8

† Ylp`ma m`|wl % "g|wwkfo |t"! wgplmekfo! n|ekakmrkfo

† Rnplmrlfkfo krn tn{wkgma nmpe cp ykcalfgl

† @plmjkfo rnkfow cp bmemokfo rnkfow nkgn mpl ketcprmfr rc rnl ykgrke

† Emjkfo rnl ykgrke wgmplb cp mipmkb ci tn{wkgma cp tw{gncacokgma nmpe

† Rnplmrlfkfo rnl ykgrke

† Nkbkfo rnkfow `lacfokfo rc rnl ykgrke

† _mrgnkfo cylp rnl nc|wl! cpj tamgl! wgncca cp mf{nlpl rnl ykgrke oclw icp bmka{ `|wkflww

† Emjkfo |flagcel mbymfglw

† \wkfo m`|wkyl amfo|mol

M`c|r rnl Cpblpw

_nmr kw m Tpcrlgrkcf Cpblp3M tpcrlgrkcf cpblp kw m bcg|elfr nkgn rnl Gc|pr kww|lw nkgn tplylfrw rnl m`|wlp ipce nmpekfo rnlykgrke& Kr kw elmfr rc plwrpmkf rnl m`|wlp& Ki rnl m`|wlp nmpew rnl ykgrke kf wtkrl ci rnl cpblp! rnl m`|wlp

gmf `l mpplwrlb krnc|r m mppmfr& Rnl Tpcrlgrkcf Cpblp kw elmfr rc o|mpmfrll/w rnl ykgrke/w wmilr{! laa`lkfo mfb nlmarn&

 

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Nc gmf m Tpcrlgrkcf cpblp bc rnmr3 _nmr bclw kr plmaa{ bc3Rnl Tpcrlgrkcf cpblp tplylfrw rnl m`|wlp ipce lfrlpkfo rnl ncel cp cpjtamgl ci rnl ykgrke! cp ipce

ockfo mf{nlpl rnl ykgrke oclw akjl ipklfbw mfb plamrkylw nc|wlw&Kr tplylfrw rnl m`|wlp ipce ockfo kfrc glprmkf acgmakrklw&

Kr plwrpmkfw rnl m`|wlp ipce nmpekfo cp nmpmwwkfo rnl ykgrke cp rnl gnkabplfKr gmf emjl rnl m`|wlp tpcykbl rnl ykgrke krn ecfl{ icp rnl |tjllt ci rnl ykgrke cp rnl gnkabplfKr tplylfrw rnl m`|wlp ipce ecykfo rnl ykgrke/w tpctlpr{

Kr gmf mawc emjl rnl m`|wlp oc kfrc m gc|fwlakfo tpcopme

_nc gmf ikal icp m Tpcrlgrkcf Cpblp3Rnl ykgrke gmf bc kr& Rnl gc|pr nmw icpew rnmr nmyl rc `l |wlb rc ikaa |t rnl icpe& Rnl wrmii mr rnl gc|prgc|ab mawc mwwkwr krn ikaakfo |t rnl icpe&

M }|makiklb wcgkma cpjlp cp m tcakgl ciikglp gmf mawc ikal rnl mttakgmrkcf cf `lnmai ci rnl ykgrke&Ki rnl ykgrke kw m gnkab |fblp =9 cp kw elfrmaa{ bkwm`alb! rnl tmplfrw cp o|mpbkmf! cp rnl tlpwcf krn

nce rnl ykgrke akylw! cp m }|makiklb wcgkma cpjlp cp m tcakgl ciikglp kaa nmyl rc ikal rnl mttakgmrkcf& _nmr kw mf Cgg|tmrkcf Cpblp3

_nlf rnl gc|pr emjlw m Tpcrlgrkcf Cpblp! kr gmf mawc emjl mf Cgg|tmrkcf Cpblp& Rnkw cpblp lfrkralw rnlykgrke rc gcfrkf|l rc akyl kf rnl nlp cp nkw ncel! lylf ki rnl ncel `lacfow rc rnl m`|wlp& Rnkw elmfw

rnmr rnl m`|wlp gmffcr rnpc rnl ykgrke c|r! `|r rnl m`|wlp kaa nmyl fc aloma pkonr rc cgg|t{ rnl nc|wlnkal rnl cpblp kw kf icpgl- Nclylp! rnkw bclw fcr elmf rnmr rnl cflpwnkt ci rnl nc|wl kw rpmfwilpplbrc rnl ykgrke& Kr elmfw rnmr rnl ykgrke gmf akyl kf rnl nc|wl lylf rnc|on kr `lacfow rc rnl m`|wlp&

 _nmr kw m Rlfmfg{ Cpblp3

Ki rnl ykgrke mfb m`|wlp mpl rlfmfrw ci rnl nc|wl rnl{ akyl kf! rnl gc|pr okylw rnl ykgrke rnl pkonr rc `lrnl cfa{ rlfmfr& Rnl m`|wlp kaa nmyl fc aloma pkonr rc akyl kf rnl nc|wl& 

Nc acfo mpl rnl cpblpw ymakb3 _nmr gmf rnl m`|wlp bc alomaa{3Rnl cpblpw mpl ymakb icp m wtlgkikg tlpkcb& Rnl m`|wlp gmf emjl mf mttakgmrkcf icp rnl bkwgnmpol ci rnl

cpblp mw wccf mw kr kw tmwwlb& Rnkw kaa gmaa icp mfcrnlp nlmpkfo mfb rnl ykgrke! cp tlpwcf ikakfo rnlmttakgmrkcf icp rnl cpblp cf `lnmai ci rnl ykgrke! gmf mpo|l rnmr rnl cpblpw e|wr gcfrkf|l& Rnl gc|prwkaa gcfwkblp ikpwr rnl bmfolp rc rnl ykgrke! mfb rc mf{ gnkabplf ci rnl ykgrke&

 Nc wccf mpl rnl cpblpw tmwwlb3

Ki rnl ykgrke kw kf keelbkmrl bmfolp mfb rnl wkr|mrkcf kw akjl mf lelpolfg{! rnl cpblp gmf `l tmwwlb mwwccf mw rnl mttakgmrkcf kw ikalb& Crnlpkwl! m nlmpkfo kaa `l ik~lb krnkf wlylf bm{w mirlp rnlmttakgmrkcf kw ikalb& Maa ci rnl tlpwcfw nmyl rc `l tplwlfr mr rnl nlmpkfo& Rnl emokwrpmrl kaa nmyl rc

emjl w|pl rnmr rnl gmwl kw olf|kfl& Rnl emokwrpmrl nmw rc `l gcfykfglb rnmr w|gn mf cpblp kw fllblb icprnl wmilr{! laa `lkfo mfb nlmarn ci rnl ykgrke cp ci rnl gnkabplf kfycaylb& Rnl emokwrpmrl mawc nmw rc `l

gcfykfglb rnmr rnl ykgrke fllbw m tamgl rc akyl `licpl opmfrkfo mf Cgg|tmrkcf cp Rlfmfg{ Cpblp&&Rnl Mgr wm{w rnmr maa nlmpkfow kaa `l nlab krnc|r mf m|bklfgl& Rnl flwtmtlpw mfb elbkm gmffcrpltcpr cf rnlwl gmwlw |falww rnl emokwrpmrl maacw rnle rc bc wc& Rnl tlpwcfw miilgrlb `{ rnl

mttakgmrkcf gmf pl}|lwr pltcprlpw cp crnlp tlctal rc almyl rnl gc|pr pcce b|pkfo rnl nlmpkfo&

Rnl Pcal ci rnl Tcakgl&\fblp rnl Bcelwrkg Ykcalfgl Mgr! rnl tcakgl ciikglpw nmyl m gp|gkma pcal rc tam{ kf lfw|pkfo rnl wmilr{ci ykgrkew cp mf{ crnlp tlpwcfw kf bmfolp&

Rnl{ gmf ikal mf mttakgmrkcf kf rnl gc|pr cf `lnmai ci rnl ykgrke&Rnl{ gmf mpplwr mf m`|wlp krnc|r m mppmfr ki nl ykcamrlw rnl gc|pr cpblpw

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Rnl{ nmyl m b|r{ rc mwwkwr rnl ykgrke `{ lfw|pkfo rnmr rnl ykgrke kw rmjlf rc ncwtkrma mfb olrw elbkgmamrrlfrkcf ki rnl{ mpl kfh|plb mw m plw|ar ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl&

Rnl tcakgl nmw rc lfw|pl rnmr mf{ tlpwcf nc kw mipmkb ci bcelwrkg ykcalfgl mfb illaw |fwmil kw ecylbrc m wmil tamgl&

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Gnmtrlp ? \fblpwrmfbkfo Nlmarn{ Plamrkcfwnktw

Olflpma Mke8 % Rc emjl tmprkgktmfrw mmpl ci rnl b{fmekgw ci m nlmarn{ plamrkcfwnktw& Rnkw wlwwkcf kwtmprkg|ampa{ olmplb rcmpbw {c|fo tlctal nc mpl fc `lokffkfo rc icpe kfrkemrl plamrkcfwnktw&

Wtlgkikg C`hlgrkylw 8% @{ rnl lfb ci rnkw wlwwkcf! tmprkgktmfrw wnc|ab `l m`al rc 8%

=&\fblpwrmfb `c|fbmpklw kf plamrkcfwnktw0&plykl rnlkp cf plamrkcfwnktw7&bkwg|ww rnl wkofw ci nlmarn{ plamrkcfwnktw mfb |fnlmarn{ plamrkcfwnktw

?&= @c|fbmpklw kf Plamrkcfwnktw

@pklikfo Fcrlw8

Ecwr n|emf `lkfow nmyl m fllb rc `lacfo mfb rc illa acylb mfb mfrlb& Nclylp! b|l rc bkiilplfrrnkfow kf c|p akylw! l gc|ab oc kfrc plamrkcfwnktw icp rnl pcfo plmwcf! mfb lfb |t l~tcwkfo c|pwlaylw

rc ecpl n|pr mfb gcfi|wkcf&

@licpl acykfo mf{cfl! kr kw ketcprmfr rc acyl cfl wlai! mfb rc illa gceicprm`al krn {c|p ocmaw! {c|p akil

mfb {c|p wlai& M occb rlwr kw rc lfw|pl rnmr nlmarn{ `c|fbmpklw mpl lwrm`akwnlb nkgn c|ab lfw|plf|pr|pkfo plamrkcfwnktw& Rnlpl mpl wlylpma wkofw ci |fnlmarn{ `c|fbmpklw& Rmjkfo mggc|fr ci rnlwl kw m

occb m{ rc lwrm`akwn nmr rnl plamrkcfwnkt kw bckfo rc w|ttcpr {c|p akil&

Wkofw ci \fnlmarn{ @c|fbmpklw

†  nlf m tlpwcf kw kfgakflb rc ecyl `lrllf rp|wrkfo fc cfl rc rp|wrkfo mf{cfl! mfb rlaakfo maa rc

mf{cfl

†  Rmajkfo mr kfrkemrl alyla cf ikpwr ellrkfo

†  imaakfo kf acyl krn m fl mg}|mkfrmfgl

†  imaakfo kf acyl krn mf{cfl nc plmgnlw c|r

†  `lkfo cylpnlaelb `{ m tlpwcf % rnkfjkfo m`c|r rnle maa rnl rkel mr rnl l~tlfwl ci crnlp mgrkykrklw

†  mgrkfo cf ikpwr wl~|ma ket|awl†  `lkfo wl~|ma icp rnl tmprflp mfb fcr icp wlai 

†  ockfo momkfwr tlpwcfma yma|lw cp pkonrw rc talmwl crnlpw

†  fcr fcrkgkfo nlf wcelcfl lawl bkwtam{w kfmttpctpkmrl `c|fbmpklw

†  mggltrkfo iccb! okirw! rc|gn! wl~ rnmr {c| bc fcr mfr

†  rc|gnkfo m tlpwcf krnc|r mwjkfo

†  rmjkfo mw e|gn mw {c| gmf olr icp rnl wmjl ci olrrkfo

†  okykfo mw e|gn mw {c| gmf okyl icp rnl wmjl ci okykfo

†  maackfo wcelcfl rc rmjl mw e|gn mw rnl{ gmf ipce {c|

†  alrrkfo crnlpw bkplgr {c|p akil

†  alrrkfo crnlpw blwgpk`l {c|p plmakr{

†  alrrkfo crnlpw blikfl {c|

†  `laklykfo crnlpw gmf mfrkgktmrl {c|p fllbw mfb illakfo mfop{ nlf rnl{ bc fcr

†  l~tlgrkfo crnlpw rc ikaa {c|p fllbw m|rcemrkgmaa{

†  imaakfo mtmpr wc wcelcfl kaa rmjl gmpl ci {c| % mfb plwcprkfo rc wlai `amel mfb wlai nmrplb wc mw rc

olr mrrlfrkcf

†  wl~|ma mfb tn{wkgma m`|wl

†  m`|wl ci iccb! bp|ow ! magcnca

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†  M occb plamrkcfwnkt kw cfl nlpl rnlpl kw m rp|l kfrkemg{ ci plylmakfo mfb wnmpkfo {c|pwlai krn

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†  Kf gcfrpca ci cf akil mfb gkpg|ewrmfglw

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†  Mw m gnkab mw |w|maa{ ipll ci wnmel%`mwlb ecrkymrkcf

†  Rlfbw rc accj mr maa plamrkcfwnktw plmakwrkgmaa{! krnc|r kblmakwkfo cp gmwrkomrkfo

†  Kw gceicprm`al krn macflflww

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cp tn{wkgma m`|wl

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Wnkirkfo plwtcfwk`kakr{ icp m`|wkyl`lnmykcp rc {c| w|gn mw "{c|/pl rcc

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Nlmarn{ Plamrkcfwnktw \fnlmarn{ Plamrkcfwnktw

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†  Emjkfo {c| "illa bkpr{"

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nmpei|a `lnmykcpw

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