8th Grade Sexual Harassment Presentation

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    Definition:

    Sexual Harassment is

    defined by the law asany unwanted

    attention of a sexual

    What is Sexual Harassment?

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    Sexual Harassment and the Law

    Indiana Code 35-45-2-2

    A person who, with an intent to harass, annoy or alarm another person but

    with no intent of legitimate communication:

    Makes a telephone call, whether or not a conversation ensues;

    Communicates with a person by mail or other written communication

    Transmits an obscene message

    Uses a computer network or other form of electronic communication to:

    a. Communicate with a person; or

    b. Transmit an obscene message or indecent or profane words to aperson

    Commits harassment, a Class B misdemeanor.

    ***Class B misdemeanor is punishable by up to 180 days in jail and $1,000 infines.

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    Myths vs. Facts

    Sexual harassment is a harmless joke that doesnt

    hurt anyone.Girls ask to be sexually harassed by the way they

    dress or behave.

    Theres nothing a person can do to stop

    harassment.Guys cannot be sexually harassed.

    Girls like to be sexually harassed. Its a way of

    complimenting someone.

    Sexual harassment is the same as flirting.

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    Do you think sexualharassment

    happens the mostin middle school,

    high school or

    colle e?

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    STATISTICS:

    An independent study by the American

    Association of University WomenEducational Foundation found that 76% ofboys and 85% of girls have been sexuallyharassed during middle school.

    Students most often experience sexualharassment for the first time during 6th to 9thgrade.

    81% of students will experience some form

    of sexual harassment at some time while theyare in school, with 27% experiencing it often.

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    Is sexual

    harassmentall about boys

    harassing

    girls?

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    STATISTICS:

    76% of high school boys reported

    unwanted sexual behavior that interfereswith their lives.

    18% of boys were targeted often.

    42% of boys have been inappropriatelytouched, grabbed or pinched.

    23% of boys have been called gay in a

    derogatory manner.

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    Where does

    sexualharassment

    occur in

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    3 Types of Sexual Harassment

    VISUAL inappropriate instant message or email,

    bathroom wall graffiti, showing someone inappropriatepictures that makes them feel uncomfortable, obscene

    gestures

    VERBALdirty jokes, comments about someonesbody, spreading rumors of a sexual nature

    PHYSICAL grabbing or touching someone that makes

    them feel uncomfortable, unwanted hugging or kissing,

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    VERBAL, VISUAL OR

    PHYSICAL?

    Jasmine spreads rumors all over school that Tonya is onlypopular because She gives guys what they want.

    Kirk writes a gross message about Joy on the wall of theboys bathroom.

    Walter tries to pants Jason on the bus.

    On a field trip, Ron plants himself next to Sophie and keepspushing up against her, even when she tries to move away.

    Emily keeps giving Aaron flirtatious notes and leaving phonemessages even though hes made it clear that he doesnt wantthis attention.

    Anthonys dirty jokes at the lunch table embarrass Lauren.She tries to ignore him, but he doesnt stop even after sheasks him to.

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    FLIRTING VS. SEXUALHARASSMENT

    Flirting Sexual Harassment

    Flirting is welcome attention.

    Flirting goes both ways.

    Flirting makes you feel

    attractive.

    Flirting makes you feel in

    control.

    Flirting makes you feel good

    about yourself.

    Flirting is legal.

    Sexual harassment makesus feel uncomfortable.

    Sexual harassment is one-sided.

    Sexual harassment feelsdegrading.

    Sexual harassment makes

    you feel powerless. Sexual harassment makes

    you feel bad about yourself.

    Sexual harassment is aviolation of school rules

    AND is illegal.

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    Flirting vs. Harassment

    Put it to the test!

    You are really looking good today.

    Those tight jeans look great.

    That sweater makes your eyes look blue.

    With that body, you could be a model.

    I love your new haircut.You look so sexy in that dress.

    Those track shorts look cute on you.

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    How does sexual harassment affect

    the victim?

    Physical Effects: EmotionalEffects:

    SchoolPerformanceEffects:

    Changes in body

    weightIllness

    Dependence on

    alcohol / drugs

    Headaches/stoma

    ch achesSleeplessness

    Ulcers

    Anger / Irritability

    DepressionLoss of trust in

    others

    Embarrassment

    Low self-esteem

    Fear / IntimidatedSelf-blame

    Powerlessness

    Acting out

    Damagedreputation

    Drop in quality of

    work

    Declining grades

    Switching schoolsSwitching classes

    Tardiness

    Truancy

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    Katy and the Bathroom Wall

    Part 1:

    What would you recommend Katy do?

    If Katy reported the incident, who should she report it to?

    Part 2:

    What would you recommend Katy do?

    If Katy reported the incident, who should she report it to now?

    Part 3:

    What would you recommend?

    A. Katy should ignore the whole issue?

    B. Katy could transfer to another school?

    C. Katy could report the incident. If so, to who?

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    The New Boy, Taunted and

    Targeted

    Part 1:

    In your opinion, do you think this is sexualharassment? Why or why not?

    Part 2:

    Rob says that boys are trapped in a double bind,liking and disliking the attention at the same time.Can you explain this? Do you think he is right?

    If you were in Robs shoes, what would you do?

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    Step 1: Communicate to your harasser what you arefeeling and that you expect the behavior to stop. You cando this verbally or in writing. If you choose, you may gethelp and support from a friend, parent, professional oranother trusted adult.

    Step 2: If the person does not stop when you ask themto, report the harassment to the appropriate person inyour school including a teacher, counselor, oradministrator and tell your parents. Document exactlywhat happened giving as many details and quotes whenpossible.

    Step 3: If the behavior is repeated again, go to a person

    in higher authority, such as a school board member orsuperintendant. Be persistent!

    What to do if it happens to you?

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    HOW CAN YOU HELP?

    Refuse to join in when you see someone being

    harassed. Dont ignore it. If you feel safe doing so, step in and interruptthe harassment.

    Get support, tell an adult that you trust. Dont

    be a bystander. Talk to the person being harassed and try toget them to talk to an adult. Offer to go withthem. Overall, be supportive!

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    NOBODY DESERVES TO BE

    SEXUALLY HARASSED!