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Bo Sanchezs How to Find Your One True Love (Book 2) Is the Answer Many Singles Have Been Praying forSingles, get ready! Because Bo Sanchezs How To Find Your One True Love (Book 2):The Complete Course Manual will take you further where his Book 1, How to Find Your One True Love, ended. In this exciting course, he will virtually hold your hand and lead you step-by-step through the journey of finding your One True Love.Heres a tiny fraction of what youll learn from Book 2: In Book 1, Bo Sanchez disc

ussed the eight Prisons of Fears and Internal Blocks. But in The Complete Course, youll learn how to get out of those Prisons of Fears and overcome those Internal Blocks. Youll learn how to get out of a bad relationship which is crucial so youll be open to a new one! Youll learn how to develop your charm, which youll discover is actually tied to Christian Values. So you can clarify and focus on what and who you want, this course will help you write your Must-Have and Must-Not-HaveList. Through an 18-Point Moral Inventory, youll define what you need to change

inside you. Because at the end of the day, right character is very attractive! Through a 6-Item Emotional Health Evaluation, youll learn what you need to maturein you. And equally important, youll know if a boyfriend or girlfriend is emotionally healthy as well. Youll also find out if you and your potential OTL are compatible. Youll learn how to encourage your boyfriend to propose marriage (This is i

mportant!) Youll discover the three Counterfeit Love Styles to watch out from your partner. And so much, much more!

After the #1 Bestseller, How to Find Your One True Love, comes this much awaitedand exciting sequel

How To FInD Your one True Love Book 2 Bo Sanchez

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After the #1 Bestseller, How to Find Your One True Love, comes this much awaitedand exciting sequel

BOOK The Complete Course Manual on How to Attract, Choose and Marry the Partnerof Your Dreams

Bo Sanchez#1 Bestselling Author of 8 Secrets of the Truly Rich and Your Past Does Not Define Your Future


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OtHer BOOKs BY BO sAnCHez8 Secrets of the Truly Rich How to Find Your One True Love Your Past Does Not Define Your Future THE BOSS Series How to Be Really, Really, Really Happy You CanMake Your Life Beautiful You Have the Power to Create Love Fill Your Life with Miracles SIMPLIFY Series Simplify and Live the Good Life Simplify and Create Abundance PRAYER BOOKS Embraced The Way of the Cross Special Prayers for the Rosary


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A note from the Author to the Owner of How to Find Your One True Love Book 2: The Complete Course Manual on How to Attract, Choose and Marry the Partner of YourDreams

Congratulations! This Complete Course offers a more comprehensive, more detailed, more step-bystep approach than my first book, How to Find Your One True Love.

While my first book touched the surface of the topics, well go in-depth and applythe truths you learned in the book which makes the difference between night andday. And like my first book, I speak to the same audience. 1. I speak to all si

ngles, but especially to mature singles: those nearing 30 and beyond. I speak tomen and women, but especially to women. So if a man is reading this, please men

tally translate Woman and Girl and Sister to Man and Boy and Brother for topicptable to both genders.

2.

Turn the page and start your exciting journey of finding your one true love.


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HOw tO FinD YOur One true LOve BOOK 2The Complete Course Manual on How to Attract, Choose and Marry the Partner of Your Dreams ISBN- 978-971-93671-4-7 Bo Sanchez

Bestselling author of 8 Secrets of the Truly Rich and Your Past Does Not DefineYour Future

Philippine Copyright 2007 by Eugenio R. Sanchez, Jr. Requests for information should be addressed to: SHEPHERDS VOICE PuBLICATIOnS, InC. #60 Chicago St., Cubao,Quezon City, Philippines 1109 P.O. Box 1331 Quezon City Central Post Office 1153Quezon City

Tel. No. (+632) 411-7874 to 77; Fax. No. (632) 727-5615 e-mail: [email protected]

All rights reserved. no part of this publication may be reproduced, except for brief quotations, without the prior permission of the publisher. Cover and Layoutby Rey de Guzman Cover Photo by Ed Santiago


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COntentsIntroduction Step #1: take Responsibility for Finding Your One true Love Action#1: Form Your Support Team for Operation OTL Action #2: Grow in Character Action#3: Get Emotionally Healthy Action #4: Know Yourself Step #2: Know Whats Stoppin

g You Inside Action #1: Study the Different Kinds of Internal Blocks and Prisons

of Fear Action #2: What Are Your Internal Blocks and Prisons of Fear? Action #3: How to Get Out of Bad Relationships Step #3: talk to Lots of Guys Action #1: Straighten Out Your Theology Action #2: A More Complete List of Places to Go Action #3: Meet Three-New-Men-a-Week Challenge Action #4: Take the Hello Challenge Action #5: Develop Your Charm Action #6: What Is Your Body Saying? Action #7: Opening Questions and More Action #8: Prepared Answers Will Help Action #9: Be Directin Your Admiration if You Like Him Step #4: Have As Many Friendly Dates As Humanly possible Action #1: Follow the Rules of Friendly Dates Action #2: Date with Zero Expectations Action #3: Tell Everyone Youre Open to Friendly Dates Action #4:Connect with Him Step #5: Be Attractive Action #1: Rate YourselfHow Attractive A

re You? 9 13 15 17 22 47 51 52 69 72 77 79 82 84 87 88 90 92 94 95 99 101 103 104 106 111 112


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Action #2: Choose Three Attraction Secrets to Work On Action #3: Love Your BodysUnique Beauty Action #4: Have a Makeover Inside and Out! Action #5: Be as SuperHealthy as You Can Be Step #6: Know What You Want in a Spouse Action #1: Know the Differences between Your Lists Action #2: Check for Red Flags Action #3: WriteYour Must-Have List Action #4: Write Your Must-Not-Have List Action #5: Write Y

our Wish List Step #7: enter into Courtship Action #1: Review Actions in My First Book Action #2: Watch Out for These Three Counterfeit Love Styles Action #3: A

re You Compatible? Action #4: How to Encourage a Man to Propose Marriage Action#5: 70 Questions for Engaged Couples Step #8: trust God and enjoy Life Action #1: Know the Difference between Aloneness and Loneliness Action #2: Make Relationships a Priority Action #3: Open Your Heart to Others Action #4: Give Warmth NowAction #5: Be Committed to Non-Stop Growth Action #6: In Your Loneliness, Connect to God References Single Men (or Women) Log

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intrODuCtiOnI believe marriage is one of the greatest things in this universe. God inventedit, designed it, created it and blessed it. Some people ridicule and criticize the idea of having a course like this. They say, Why will I deliberately search for my spouse? Thats totally absurd, juvenile and unspiritual. Ill leave that to God

, thank you. But this same woman will deliberately search (shop, hunt, read ads,call up the yellow pages, ask referrals from friends) for a nifty pair of shoes,or a cool cellphone or a pretty camera. Hey, why dont you leave all those thingsto God, too? Sit at home, pray and read your Bible, and believe that tomorrow,

God Himself will come like a FedEx truck to deliver to you a nifty pair of shoes, or a cool cellphone, or a pretty camera. I believe that not taking responsibility for your future is absurd. This is what How to Find Your One True Love Book2: is all about: Its about seriously committing yourself to search for your One True Love. Ill be your Life Coach, guiding you through this exciting, scary, difficult, happy journey. In this course, youll be answering some questions about yourself. (OK, a lot of questions.) And youll be doing some things that youve never done before. (Get ready!) By the way, as you can see, this manual is thick. Dont be

overwhelmed. If you do even some of the most important activities in this manual, the chances are high that youll be sending me a wedding invitation one of these days. And I look forward to that! And lest you spend all your time holed up inyour room answering the questionnaires for the next three months, I want you toalready practice Step #3, while youre still completing Step #1 and Step #2. Why?Because Step #3 is where you talk to lots of guys. Yep, I want you to go out th

ere and meet new single men! You know what? I have a sneaking suspicion that a few people bought my book and bought this course manual not so much for the details of the activities Im recommending


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(they probably know the stuff already), but because Im giving them permission tofind a spouse. For them, just owning my book and this course manual is a deep symbol of Gods blessing for their future. For once in their life, a spiritual authority is not ridiculing their desire to get married, not calling them shallow, not labelling them spiritually immature for looking for a spouse. Friend, Im not only

allowing you. Im anointing you. Im commissioning you to go and bear fruit. If kings anointed their knights by laying the tip of their sword on the knights shoulders, Im using this course manual to do the same thing. Friend, Im placing this course manual in your hands. Go. Find your man (or woman). And have great fun doingso.

Your Life Coach,

Bo Sanchez [email protected]

P.S. With this book, you will also test-drive the membership in the OTL Networkof Happy Singles, whose mission is to help single members become alumni members

(because they got married!). OTL Members get three monthly newsletters from me filled with practical wisdom and important strategies on how to become the most attractive single person and a phenomenal human being that they can possibly be.For more details, check the last pages of this book.

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Before you start, I want you to write five things youd like to happen to your life (goals) by going through this course One of the best ways of writing goals is by putting it into prayer form. Write a love letter to God and tell Him what youwant to happen as you take this course. I gave you some more writing space afterthe goals for whatever else you want to tell Him. Dear Lord, Here are my goals,

Lord, for this course: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Love,


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steP #1: take responsibility for Finding Your One true LoveAction #1: Form Your Support Team for Operation OTL Action #2: Grow in CharacterAction #3: Get Emotionally Healthy

Action #4: Know Yourself


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If you want to take personal responsibility for finding your one true love, youhave to find yourself so that you can find your One True Love. I must warn you:The following exercises in Step #1 are a lot. As I said in my introduction, dontget tied up doing all these exercises. While doing them, I want you to start going to Step #3: Talk to Lots of Guys. Is this clear? Good. Enjoy!


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Action #1: Form Your Support Team for operation oTLlife. Dont do this alone. Finding your One True Love is one of the most importantdecisions in your

Mess this up and you mess up your entire life. So for your own good, form a Supp

ort Team around you that will pray for you, encourage you and advise you. Call them your OTL Support Team. Ask yourself. Who are the closest people in your lifethat are encouraging, positive and level-headed when it comes to finding you a

spouse? Nope, they wont make decisions for you. Only you can do that. But you canget their suggestions that are very important for an emotionally-charged decisi

on like finding your spouse. Sign up your own parents (as honorary members), closest friends and spiritual leaders if they fit the criteria. Actually, the idealis for you to do this together with other single men and women who are also tak

ing this complete course or at least have read my book. Youll understand each other. But include wise, married people as well in your OTL Support Team. Ask eachof them, I want to seriously take responsibility for finding a spouse. Can you bemy Prayer Partners? When they say, Yes, of course! ask a follow-up question, Will y

ou mind if I talk to you once in a while to get your advice and suggestions? Write four or five potential members of your OTL Support Team below. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.


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Action #1: Form Your Support Team for Operation OTL

Here are a few responsibilities for each member. (Ask gently. Theyre volunteers!)1. Pray regularly for your intention that you find your OTL. 2. Be available totalk once in a while. 3. Give you feedback on how you can improve your characte

r, personality, etc. 4. Encourage you to do the assignments in this complete course. 5. Evaluate potential OTLs, (Note: I repeat, they dont make choices for you.

You make them but their comments are important.) They wake you up if this potential OTL is hazardous to your future well-being, or encourage you to continue todate him if they see great potential that you dont see. Thats it! Lets now go to A

ction #2: Grow in Character


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Action #2: Grow in characterLets not kid ourselves: Character is attractive. More than smooth skin and long legs and a pretty face, your character is your #1 Attraction Secret. John T. Molloy conducted a huge study of 2,000 engaged couples, and after thousands of surveys, focus groups and interviews, one of his findings was this: Men are attracted

to beauty, but marry because of character. In other words, they may date beautybut they will only marry character. Physical beauty may make him look. But for

him to keep on looking to the point of wanting to marry, youve got to have character. In order to help you know what specific areas you need to grow in, I prepared a Moral Inventory below. I found this Moral Inventory from the Recovery Movement (Alcoholics Anonymous, Substance Abuse Anonymous, etc.). I adapted and edited it for our use. Because they deal with millions of people from all walks of life, the Recovery Movements Moral Inventory is broad enough to help people from all sorts of cultures and religions.

A. 18-point Moral InventoryYou can rate yourself 1 to 10 for each, 1 being no success and 10 meaning habitual

success. How am I doing in each of the following virtues?

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Thankfulness: I always thank my God and others for what they have done. I can honestly say that Im a thankful person. Gentleness: I can control my temper. I donthave outbursts of selfish anger or unrighteous rage.

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Forgiveness: I have no hatred or bitterness toward any other person anywhere onthis earth. I refuse to take revenge when people criticize, condemn, reject or complain against me. If at all possible, I try to repair broken relationships as

quickly as I can. Humility: I consistently consider others as equal with myself.I have a teachable spirit. Courage: I take the risk of doing whats right, keepin

g fear under control. Trust: Ive surrendered my life to God. Im free from uselessfretting, worry or anxiety. Perseverance: Its normal for me to keep doing whats right. Even when things get difficult, or stressful or unrewarding. Submission: Idont fight those placed in authority over me, even if theyre less competent or gifted. Ultimately, I follow Gods authority in my life. Generosity: I regularly giveto my family, church, community and the poor. Generosity is a normal behavior t

o me.

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______5. ______6.

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______10. Love for Family: I spend as much time as I can with my family, honoring and serving them as the priority in my life. ______11. Simplicity: I resist materialism where things are more important than people. ______12. Selflessness: Ihave laid aside envy and selfish ambition. I dont entertain jealousy of anothers

success. ______13. Spiritual Intimacy: Its the routine of my life to spend time w

ith God each day in prayer, spiritual reading and practicing the presence of God all day long.


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______14. Self-Control: My thought life is free from all intentional impure thoughts and sexual fantasies. My actions are free from enslaving habits and vices.

______15. Truthfulness: My yes is yes and my no is no. I practice honesty both in my relationships with others and myself. ______16. Language: I abstain from slander, gossip and biting criticism. I use my tongue to build others up, giving w

ords of encouragement, comfort, help, inspiration and challenge. ______17. Industry: I work hard, using the time and talents that God has given me to develop myself and serve others. ______18. Cheerfulness: I can remain joyful during timesof difficulty, hopeful that God is still in control through uncertainty. On thenext page, youll zero in on what needs your attention


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B. Write two priority Areas of GrowthThere are no right or wrong answers, passing or failing grades. use the Moral Inventory to point out the areas of your character that need more growth than others. Write down the two areas where you scored the lowest. These are your priority areas for growth. A quick reminder: Though it usually takes years to see matur

ity, changes have to start now. Aside from writing down the two priority areas,write the specific weakness as well. Example: Score: Problem One: Gentleness Specifically, I cant control my anger and I shout easily, especially to people at home

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priority One: Specifically,

Score:

priority two: Specifically,

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If theres sin involved, confess to God. (If youre a Catholic, confess to a priestas well.) Being aware of these weaknesses and writing it down here is half the battle won. How to overcome your weakness is beyond the scope of this course. Youneed to work on these weaknesses separately, reading books, attending seminars,asking counselors and spiritual leaders on how you can overcome these two prior

ity areas of your character. Lets now go to Action #3


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