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I have grown to love rejection. I used to absolutely hate

it. I used to fear it, loathe it, and avoid it at any cost. If

there was any chance you would say no I would run for

the hills… and never come back unless I had a

guaranteed yes in advance.

Now, after twenty plus years of business and forty plus

years on Earth, rejection has become my favorite

aphrodisiac. Let me explain why…

1- Don’t Waste My Time

When you reject me… you are no longer wasting my

time. It simply allows me to move on without being

strung out on a bunch of false hope and promises. Tell

me NO and let me not waste any more of your time, as

you are no longer wasting mine… so thank you for

rejecting me.

2- Your No Brings Me Closer To Someone Else’s Yes

Once you say no, I know I am just one step closer to someone else saying yes… and someone will say

yes. Because of that, I very much appreciate your rejection.

3- Being Rejected Means I Am Being Proactive

There is no way I can be rejected if I never TRY, thus, the more I am rejected, the more I continue to be

proactive, take action and go after what I want. For that reason, rejection is great.

4- Being Rejected Means I Am Doing The Opposite Of Reason # 3

Being rejected means I am not sitting on my ass. I don’t think anyone can accomplish anything sitting on

his or her ass. Opportunity comes to those who create it, not wait for it.

5- You Remind Me Of My Favorite Movie Scene

When you reject me… I am reminded of one of my favorite lines regarding rejection, from a classic Eddie

Murphy movie, Coming to America, when Eddie Murphy is dressed up as a barber. The line is (I’ll let you

fill in the blanks): “F- – k You, F- – k You, F- – k You… Who’s Next?” … If you are not familiar with the

scene then I suggest you watch the movie. You’ll get the point (plus it’s a great movie). That saying has

become a motto I use (in my mind) for time management that I have come to I live by. It is what I am

thinking while you are trying to muster up the simple two letter word that will allow me to get out of the

room and move on…

6- You Build My Rejection Muscles

The more I get rejected, the more my rejection muscles grow, thus the more rejection I can handle. The

more rejection I can handle, the more impetus I will have to keep going out there until I succeed. It’s called

growing armadillo skin, something every person with aspirations and dreams needs in order to achieve

success.

Show me someone who hasn’t reached success through rejection and I will show you a deadbeat

trust-fund baby who sits around, void of any aspirations. Let me be clear: There are plenty of people I

know who have been ‘trust-fund babies’ who have still created something for themselves and worked like

hell to build on what they already had. I am talking about the other kind that you and I both know.

Here are some other things I think of when you reject me. They are great examples of what others have

done with rejection in business, literary, sports, music and film…

6- Walt Disney

When you reject me, I think of… Walt Disney being rejected by 302 banks before getting the financing to

start what is now one of the most successful entertainment businesses in the history of the world.

7- Tim Ferriss

When you reject me I think of… Tim Ferris, author of The Four Hour Workweek being rejected by all 26

publishers he first submitted to. He is now one of the most popular and best-selling authors of our time.

8 – Stephen King

When you reject me I think of… Stephen King being rejected over 30 times and throwing that first book


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9- John Grisham

When you reject me I think of… John Grisham, author of A Time to Kill who was rejected 28 times until he

got one yes. He’s sold over 250 million total copies of his books since. Not too shabby.

10- Robert M. Pirsig

When you reject me I think of … Robert M. Pirsig and his the book, Zen & The Art Of Motorcycle

Maintenance being rejected so many times (121 times to be exact) that it won a spot in the Guinness Book

of World Records… before it became one of the greatest selling books of all time.

11- JK Rowlings

When you reject me I think of… JK Rowlings. Her first Harry Potter novel was submitted to twelve

publishing houses. All twelve rejected her. She caught a break when the daughter of one of the small

publishing houses liked it and decided to print some copies. Now she’s a billionaire.

12- The Beatles

When you reject me I think of… The Beatles, who were rejected by nearly the entire music industry and by

one very popular label who told them “guitar groups were on their way out” and “The Beatles have no

future in Show Business”

13- Michael Jordan

When you reject me I think of … Michael Jordan- Rejected from his Varsity Basketball team, he went on to

become (arguably) the greatest player who has ever lived.

14- Herschel Walker

When you reject me I think of … Herschel Walker- Grew up bullied because he was overweight. Used that

rejection to fuel him and started doing pushups and sit-ups everyday starting at about twelve years old.

Before he knew it, he was doing 5000 (yes thousand) pushups and 5000 sit-ups a day. He became an

unstoppable machine and had the greatest 3-year statistics of any running back in the history of college

football.

15- Colonel Sanders

When you reject me I think of Colonel Sanders of Kentucky Fried Chicken, his famous secret chicken

recipe was rejected 1,009 times before a restaurant accepted it.

16- Jack Canfield

When you reject me I think of… Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul, rejected by 141

publishers – eventually went on to sell over 100 million copies in 41 languages. He asks audiences, “What

if I had given up after 100 rejections?”

17- You Say No, I Say Next

Jack Canfield (mentioned above) in a great speech I heard, was telling an audience that his principle was,

“You Say No, I say Next”… and that is what he did until he finally met that ‘next person” who gave him a

shot .

These words have become a motto that comes into my mind every time I get rejected. You will notice that

the last word from both this quote and the Eddie Murphy quote is, “Next.” That is what I think of as soon as

I am rejected, “Next.”

18) Rejection Fills My Walls

I have a wall of rejection that has letters of all the rejections of all the literary agents that rejected me

before I got an agent, all the publishers that rejected me before I got a publisher, and all the producers that

rejected my screenplays before I finally optioned my first. I hope to have a bigger wall soon as the more

rejection letters I get, the more successes I will eventually have. That is one thing I know.

So the next time someone rejects you say, Thank You, as they are giving you the opportunity to move on

to that next person that will eventually say yes.

By MJ Gottlieb on January 17, 2013


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