If you want something to last forever, you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it. You never abuse it. You don’t expose it to the elements. You don’t make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special because you have made it so, and it grows more beautiful and precious as time goes by.
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#1. RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND.A mans greatest need in this world is
to be respected, and the person he desires that respect from the
most is his wife. The trap that weve all been ensnared by is that
they only deserve our respect when they earn it. Yes, we want our
husbands to make decisions that will ultimately garner our respect,
but the truth is that your husband is a human being.A human being
who makes mistakes. This is the man that you have chosen to walk
alongside you for the rest of your life, and to lead your family
and he needs to be respected for that quality alone. Take it from
me when respect is given even when he doesnt deserve it, it will
motivate him to earn it. That doesnt mean you pretend that his
choices are good ones when they arent. Things like that still need
to be communicated, but you can flesh out your differences with
respect. It makes all the difference in the world to him.
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#2. GUARD YOUR HEART.The grass is not greener on the other side.
Do not believe the lie that with a slimmer figure, a higher salary,
a faster car, or abiggerhouse, you will be a happier woman. The
world is full of things and people that will serve as reminders
that you dont have the best of the best, but its simply not
true.Live the life youve been blessed with, and be thankful. I get
that we all have struggles, and there are even times when I would
love 1,000 more square feet of house to live in, but square feet is
not fulfilling relationships are. Guard your heart from things and
people that will try to convince you that your life or your husband
is not good enough. There will always bebigger, faster, stronger,
or shinier but youll never be satisfied with more until youre
fulfilled with what you have now
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#3. GOD, HUSBAND, KIDS IN THAT ORDER.I know this isnt a popular
philosophy, especially among mothers, but hear me out. Its no
secret that my faith is of utmost importance, so God comes first in
my life no matter what. But regardless of yourbelief system, your
husband should come before your kids. Now unless youre married to
someone who is abusive (in which case, I urge you to seek help
beyond what my opinion can give you), no man in his right mind
would ask you to put your kids aside to serve his every need while
neglecting them. Thats not what this means. When you board an
airplane, the flight attendants are required to go over emergency
preparedness prior to take-off. When explaining the part about how
to operate the oxygen mask, passengers are instructed to first put
the mask on themselves before putting it on their small child. Is
that because they think you are more important than your kids?
Absolutely not. But you cannot effectively help your child if you
cant breathe yourself. The same holds true with marriage and
parenting. You cannot effectively parent your children if your
marriage is fallingapart. There will also come a time when your
kids will leave the house to pursue their dreams as adults. If you
have not cultivated a lasting relationship with your spouse, you
will have both empty nests and empty hearts.
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#4. FORGIVE. NO ONE IS PERFECT. Everyone makes mistakes. If you
make forgiveness a habit for everything from major mistakes to
littleannoyancesyou will keep resentment from growing.#5.
OVER-COMMUNICATE. We used to have abad habitof not speaking our
feelings. We played the standard. Men are not wired like women, and
they DONT always know that theyve been insensitive. Im still
growing in this area, and there are often times when your husband
has to pry something out of you, but you have to remember that you
need to just communicate how you feel.
www.multimatrimony.com#6. SCHEDULE A REGULAR DATE NIGHT.
This one isnt new, but its very important. Never stopdating your
spouse. Even if you cant afforddinner and a movie(which we seldom
can), spending some regular one-on-one time with your spouse is
essential. Dont talk about bills, or schedules, or the kids. You
and your husband dreamabout your future, or plan our dream
vacation. You will connect emotionally and often learn something
new about each other even after years of marriage.
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#7. NEVER THREATEN WITH DIVORCE OR SEPARATION.If youre gonna say
it, you better mean it. Plain and simple, threateningdivorce
orseparation is not fighting fair. So avoid this.
#8. LEARN HIS LOVE LANGUAGE.Everyone has a love language. The
way you perceive love is often different from the way your spouse
perceives love. Does he like words of affirmation, or does he
respond better when you give him gifts? Whatever his love language
is learn it and USE IT.
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#9. NEVER TALK NEGATIVELY ABOUT HIM.
If youre going through a difficult time in your marriage and you
need advice, see a counsellor. Family counselling is a great tool,
but try to remember that your family members and friends are not
the most objective people to give advice. The argument they are
hearing is one-sided and they often build up negative feelings
toward your spouse, which usually doesnt subside once you and your
husband have gotten past it. Protect his image with those that
youre close with and seek help from those that can actually be
objective. News flash, ladies your mother cannot be objective!
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#10. CHOOSE TO LOVE.There are times in a marriage that you may
wake up and not feel in love anymore. Choose to love anyway. There
are times when you may not be attracted to your husband anymore.
Choose to love anyway. Marriage is a commitment. In sickness and
health, in good times and in bad. Those vows are sacred. They dont
say if you have bad times. They say in good times AND in bad,
implying that there WILL be bad times. Its inevitable. So choose to
love anyway. Hes worth it.
www.multimatrimony.comMarriageIf you want something to last
forever, you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it.
You never abuse it. You dont expose it to the elements. You dont
make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you
lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special
because you have made it so, and it grows more beautiful and
precious as time goes by.
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