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July 31, 2016

WESTMINSTER UNITED METHODIST CHURCUNITED METHODIST CHURCUNITED METHODIST CHURCHHH

165 E. Main Street Westminster, MD 21157 410-848-8325 or 410-876-2124 wumcmd.org Office Hours, 9am-3pm, Mon-Fri (closed for lunch)

WESTMINSTER

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8:30am Service

WELCOME & ANNOUNCEMENTS Welcome! Please fill out the “Welcome to Worship” registration form included in your bulletin and place completed forms in the offering plate later in the service.

PRELUDE “Rondo”—Purcell

* CALL TO WORSHIP

The Word of God awaits us here; come to worship. The Holy Spirit welcomes us; gather to pray.

From the routines and struggles of our lives, we come. Amid the stresses and worries of every day, we gather.

Come to be renewed in the Spirit of Christ. God is waiting to offer us a new life of freedom.

In hope, we seek God’s caring presence; in faith, we dare to trust God’s steadfast love.

* OPENING HYMN “Rejoice, the Lord Is King ” UMH 715

* OPENING PRAYER Hear our prayers, O God, and give ear to our supplications. When life seems full of enemies and our spirits are crushed, it is hard to believe you are present. In the darkness of our despair, we know not where to find you. Let us hear once more of your steadfast love and feel once again the assurance of One we can trust. Amen.

* PASSING THE PEACE

SPECIAL MUSIC “Be Still My Soul ”—Hawryluk Linda Wood and Sue Hughson, duet

SCRIPTURE READING James 5:12-16

COMMUNITY PRAYER / THE LORD’S PRAYER

* HYMNS / You Asked For It “It’s Me, O Lord” vs 1-2 UMH 352 “Sweet Hour of Prayer” vs 1,3 UMH 496

SCRIPTURE READING James 5:7-11 Response to Scriptures: Leader: This is the word of the Lord. People: Thanks be to God!

SERMON The Rev. Dr. Dave Highfield “Being a Christian Witness in Violent Times“ "What of the wisdom from above? First, it is pure, and then peaceful, gentle, obedient, filled with mercy and good actions, fair, and genuine. Those who make peace sow the seeds of justice by their peaceful acts." (James 3:17-18)

VISIBLE SIGN OF OUR PRAYERS As we pray quietly for peace during violent times, you are invited to bring your yarn/ribbon forward and tie it on the net in the front of our sanctuary.

PRESENTATION OF TITHES AND GIFTS Offertory “Arabesque in C”—Scott * Doxology “Praise God from Whom All Blessings Flow” UMH 94 * Offering Prayer

* CLOSING HYMN “Heralds of Christ” UMH 567

POSTLUDE “Ceremonial March”—Blake please be seated for the Postlude

* You are invited to stand in heart or posture

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9:45am Chapel Service

WELCOME In the name of the Jesus, who promises to be present where two or three are gathered, we welcome you to this chapel service!

* CALL TO WORSHIP

The Word of God awaits us here; come to worship. The Holy Spirit welcomes us; gather to pray.

From the routines and struggles of our lives, we come. Amid the stresses and worries of every day, we gather.

Come to be renewed in the Spirit of Christ. God is waiting to offer us a new life of freedom.

In hope, we seek God’s caring presence; in faith, we dare to trust God’s steadfast love.

* OPENING HYMNS / You Asked For It “It’s Me, O Lord” vs 1-2 UMH 352 “Sweet Hour of Prayer” vs 1,3 UMH 496

Let us sing and shout our praises of thanksgiving and joy to God.

INVOCATION Open our lips And our mouths shall declare thy praise Praise the Lord The Lord’s name be praised. Hear our prayers, O God, and give ear to our supplications. When life seems full of enemies and our spirits are crushed, it is hard to believe you are present. In the darkness of our despair, we know not where to find you. Let us hear once more of your steadfast love and feel once again the assurance of One we can trust. Amen.

PSALTER Psalm 24, Response 1 UMH 755

SCRIPTURE READING James 5:12-16

PASTORAL PRAYER / LORD’S PRAYER

SCRIPTURE READING James 5:7-11 Response to Scriptures: Leader: This is the word of the Lord. People: Thanks be to God!

SERMON The Rev. Dr. Dave Highfield “Being a Christian Witness in Violent Times“ "What of the wisdom from above? First, it is pure, and then peaceful, gentle, obedient, filled with mercy and good actions, fair, and genuine. Those who make peace sow the seeds of justice by their peaceful acts." (James 3:17-18)

HOLY COMMUNION A Service of Word and Table II UMH 12 Confession and Pardon Passing the Peace The Great Thanksgiving You are invited to bring God’s tithe, your offering and the Welcome slips and place in the offering basket as you come forward to receive communion this morning.

VISIBLE SIGN OF OUR PRAYERS As we pray quietly for peace during violent times, you are invited to bring your yarn/ribbon forward and tie it on the net in the front of our sanctuary.

HAPPENINGS AT WESTMINSTER

* CLOSING HYMN “Heralds of Christ” UMH 567

* SENDING FORTH

* You are invited to stand in heart or posture.

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11:00am Service

We gather to worship God ...

GATHERING MUSIC

WELCOME & HAPPENINGS

SONG CELEBRATION

“Blessed Assurance” —Crosby, Knapp

“Give Me Faith” —Brown, Gatch, Brock, Joye

PASSING THE PEACE

James 5:12-16

COMMUNITY PRAYER

James 5:7-11

LET’S TALK “Being a Christian Witness

in Violent Times”

REFLECTIVE TIME / OFFERING

VISIBLE SIGN OF OUR PRAYERS As we pray quietly for peace

during violent times, you are invited to bring

your yarn/ribbon forward and tie it on the net in the front of our sanctuary.

CLOSING SONG

“You Are My Vision“—Hull, Byrne

… we leave to serve God’s people!

Sermon Outline "Being a Christian Witness

in Violent Times"

Read James 5; Matthew 5-7; John 16:33

1. Teach children and youth nonviolence by words and lifestyle.

2. Choose the way of forgiving.

3. Be a person of prayer.

4. Avoid hateful language and negative news.

5. As appropriate, apply humor.

6. Build relationships with those who are different than me.

Recommended book:

Jesus and Nonviolence: A Third Way by Walter Wink.

(Pastor Highfield has donated a copy of this book to the church library.)

Notes box…..

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REACH ASSISTANCE — Please contact REACH directly with your need: July Coordinators Joan Redman, 410-596-7152 Kim MacLean-Blevins, 410-848-4163

In our church, this week

Sun Jul 31, 2016, Feed My Sheep 8:30am A Worship Service 9:45am A Chapel Service 11am A Worship Service 11am Summer Sunday School for kids 1pm Good News at 11 - OFFSITE

7pm Youth Group - Youth House

Mon Aug 1, 2016 12pm Soup Kitchen - Jubilee

6:30pm Stephen Ministry Supervision - OFFSITE

Tue Aug 2, 2016 1pm Yoga Session - Jubilee/MMRoom

6:30pm SPRC - ConfRm

Wed Aug 3, 2016 10am Staff Mtg - ConfRm 10am Stephen Ministry - DiscRm/MM/MMKitchen 3pm VIP Meeting - ConfRm

6:30pm Task Force Round Table/Falkenstine - MM

Fri Aug 5, 2016, Deadline for Herald articles 6:30am Bible Study - Library 6pm Scrapbooking - SW

7pm Veggie Times - WUMC Garden

Sun Aug 7, 2016, Communion Sunday, Choose Human Relations Sunday 8:30am A Worship Service 9:45am A Chapel Service 11am A Worship Service 11am Summer Sunday School for kids

7pm Youth Group - Youth House

Month of August: July 26-August 2—Pastor Shari Aug 1-5—Sherri Aug 3-20—Pastor Malcolm, Education Aug 27-Sept 2—Pastor Malcolm, Vaca

Thanks to those who lead in worship, today

GREETERS 8:30 Joe & Lynn Shaw 11:00 volunteer

USHERS 8:30 Ed & Mary Etta Kirby, 11:00 volunteer Mark & Linda Clark

LAY READER 8:30 Arnie Vandervalk 11:00 Rebecca Clendaniel

NURSERY 8:30 Michelle Olson, Coordinator 11:00 Michelle Olson, Coordinator Dorothy MacLean-Blevins, Assistant Dorothy MacLean-Blevins, Assistant

SOUND 8:30 Steve Shipley 11:00 Mark Gieselman

11AM WORSHIP LEADERS Song Leader, Jake Oland; Ppt, Lisa Bowman; Pastors Malcolm Stranathan and David Highfield

ORGANIST Peggy Brengle MUSIC DIRECTOR Kyler Brengle

BULLETIN COLLATORS Cindy Potee, Sally Stair

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Prayer List (effective July 27, 2016)

“Be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer … let your request be known to God”

Our Church Family

Gary Wilson, Bill Butler, Connor Haj, Nancy Fletcher, Steve Hull, Blair Bolton, Linda Lawson, Tina Joyce, John Carbaugh, Donna Sellman, Ethel Lentzner, Marshall White, Betty Ridgell, Mary Lou Tackett, Mamie Purington

Our Family and Friends

Our General Board of Global Mission Missionaries

Nan McCurdy and Miguel Miarena (West Pac Conference), Sun Lae Kim (UB, Mongolia), Alina Saucido (Nicaragua).

For those serving in the Military

Sally Myers (Army; Fort Bragg, NC, niece-in-law of John & Susan Harbold), Dan Myers (Army Ranger Training; Fort Benning, GA, nephew of John & Susan Harbold), Rachel Davis (Naval Flier, granddaughter of June George), William Felder (Army, Stottlemyers’ nephew), Jeannie Cook (Fort Meade, Debbie Cook’s daughter), Stefanie Sadowski-Gray, (Keesler AFB, Sadowskis’ daughter), Alexandria Kennedy (Air Force Medic, Afghanistan), Dominic Chiavacci, Marines, Sue Thomas’ grandson), Tyler Somberg (Israeli Def Force/Anti Terrorism, Israel) and Sidney Somberg (Carolyn Somberg’s son and daughter)

Bulletin Prayer List, Email Prayer Chain, and Pastor Only Please use the Welcome to Worship slip to submit prayer requests. We will keep submissions in the bulletin for eight weeks. You are welcome to reissue your request at that time via our website, phone to church office or via another Welcome to Worship slip.

Prayer Circle (prayer requests to the phone tree) Please call our coordinator, Cathy Hartman, 410-871-9087 or the church office to submit requests.

Join the Prayer Email chain by sending a request to Pastor Malcolm: [email protected]

7/20-7/27 requests

Janet Saboury (sister of James Brown) Tom Joy (friend of The Harbolds) Walter Weise (cousin of H. Davis-Park) Maggie Myers (friend of Lilianna Bowman) Chris Plassman (brother of Carmen Shanholtz) Carol Plassman (step-mom of Carmen Shanholtz)

7/13-7/20 requests Stacey & Jamie Bollinger, Adelynn, Isabelle (friends of Bud & Jenny Dorr) Becky Fries (cousin of Heather Steiner ) Tom Carmine (father of Tara Atwood)

7/6-7/13 requests

George Brengle (brother of Kyler Brengle)

6/30-7/5 requests

no additional requests

6/19-6/29 requests

Elizabeth Burden (mother of Pastor Shari) Travis Beal (son of Diane Beal) The Roland-Kermisch Family (by Don & June Hicks) Mary Ellen Barnes (friend of Mary Louise Poole) Lisa Cook and Julia Cook (by Debbie Cook)

6/5-6/9 requests

Lauren Nedegaard (niece of Karen Embury) Matthew Jacob Garrett, Sebastian Bruce Gordon Eikenberg, Stephen Michael Hummel, Avery Grempler (by Debbie Cook) Family Healing (by June George)

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FEED FEED MY MY

SHEEP SHEEP FOOD DRIVE

Take a bag from the end of a pew.

Fill that bag with non-perishable food and return it to church by 12 noon, today, or drop-off your non-perishable donation to the CHURCH OFFICE kitchen, Monday, 9-3pm (closed for lunch).

No bag? No problem! Bring your donation in any manner convenient for you.

Donations cannot be accepted after 3pm, Monday. Always feel free to make donations directly to CCFS. Thank you for helping feed the hungry.

This is our final Sunday

We are seeking the following items:

Canned Fruits & Vegetables

Canned Soups & Boxed Soup Mixes

Cans or Packages of Ground Coffee

Brownie, Cake, or Muffin Mixes

Jelly (other than grape)

Boxes of Cereal appealing to kids

Oatmeal

Rice (especially brown) or Pasta

Canned Pasta (spaghetti, ravioli)

Canned (ready to eat) Foods, i.e. Tuna, Potted Meat, Vienna Sausages

Condiments i.e. Ketchup, Mustard, Mayo

Please donate the same brands you would use for your own family

and don’t donate old or questionable items.

Collection boxes are inside the front doors of the church. Please help us feed the hungry of Carroll County!

1406lbs collected, thus far

July 3—96 lbs

July 10—368 lbs

July 17—373 lbs

July 24—569 lbs

July 31—let’s take it over the top!!!

2015 Collection = 2,202 lbs

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Contact John or Stephany Seargeant [email protected] / 410-848-8325, x15

Youth Group

...meets weekly

Sundays, 7pm, at our

Youth House

155 E Main Street

CHURCH SECURITY

We love to put our buildings to good use and welcome your group during the week and on weekends.

When you are using a room on our campus, be sure to:

Turn off lights

Lock room doors

Lock hallways

Lock exterior doors

Let’s keep our church, and our church family, safe. Thank you.

Please share this exciting opportunity with family and friends!!!

Feel free to contact Maggie Schuster, Director [email protected] 410-857-6177

2 day 3s class, Fall 2016

8-10 students per 1 teacher

Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9-12

$170.00/month

$100.00 Registration Fee

Crossroads Christian Preschool is expanding classes & hiring staff!

Scan code for WUMC website

YOUTH page

John & Stephany Seargeant Directors of Youth Ministry Westminster United Methodist Church

PART-TIME POSITION DESCRIPTION:

Lead Teacher, three-year-olds Tuesdays and Thursdays 8:30-12:30

Must have 4 year degree and experience with early childhood education.

Lesson plan individually and as a team with the other teachers.

Positive classroom management

Physical stamina to facilitate and participate in preschool activities

Strong communication skills with staff, parents, and the community

Interpersonal skills to develop good relationships with the members of the community as well as being able to understand children's needs.

Willingness to continue education through various teacher trainings and workshops

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The Rev. LaTrelle Miller Easterling was elected bishop by the Northeastern Jurisdictional Conference.

By Beth DiCocco, director of communications for the New England Conference. July 14, 2016 | LANCASTER, Pa. (UMNS)

With 119 votes, 18 more than she needed, LaTrelle Miller Easterling was elected as bishop by the Northeastern Jurisdiction on July 14.

Easterling, an elder in the New England Conference, most recently served as superintendent of the Metro Boston Hope District, and was named dean of the cabinet in June. Easterling was the second and final bishop election for the Northeastern Jurisdiction.

“I always, always, always stand on the side of justice,” she said, “but I draw the circle wide enough for all of us to be there – and when I say all, I mean all.”

Pastor David Highfield, now in his 49th year of ordained ministry, retired from the United Methodist appointment system in 2007. His last full-time appointment was as lead pastor of Westminster United Methodist Church from 1992-2007. He is a graduate of West Virginia Wesleyan College, Wesley Theological Seminary, and earned the Doctor of Ministry degree from Lancaster Theological Seminary. During retirement Dave is enjoying community service, hobbies, family time, travel, singing, occasional interim ministries, and preaching. He and his wife Conni are parents, grandparents of thirteen, and live in Westminster.

Today we welcome The Rev. Dr. Dave Highfield

to our pulpit.

Read more: Scan this code or visit http://www.umc.org/news-and-media/ northeastern-elects-easterling-as-bishop

Have you seen?…

RED MESH TOTE BAG

labeled “Stephen Ministry”

containing crayons and paper

This Tote Bag was last seen in our Sunday School Superintendents’ Office. Please notify the office if you have can offer a clue to its whereabouts. Thanks!

Start collecting Shoebox supplies. Hit the sales! Flip Flops, Sunglasses, all kinds of stuff is goin’ on sale. Drop your items in the Shoebox collection boxes in Mission Hallway.

It’s that time…

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Worship Traditional Service in our sanctuary

On-campus

Blended style service in our sanctuary

ChapelChapel Traditional with weekly communion

8:30am

9:45am 11:00am

Sunday Sunday SchoolSchool Worship

9:45am

Communication Forums at WUMC

HERALD monthly newsletter Articles are due on the fifth of each month to Sherri Haines, church office. ...for publication of events up to two months out.

BULLETIN weekly church bulletin Notices are due by Tuesday, 3pm, to Sherri Haines, church office. ...for publication of current events, no more than two weeks out. Submissions should be no more than 75 words.

WEEKLY E-HERALD via email Forward info to Sherri Haines, church office, by 3pm, Wednesday. ...for email and facebook publication to the entire church on Thursdays, intended for time-critical events and news related to this coming weekend in our church and ministries, ONLY. Submission should be brief, of 50 words or less.

WEBSITE and FACEBOOK Submissions to the website may apply to any future date. The website is placed on most publications of the church. Facebook is best reserved for shorter-timed updates but there is an events feature that can be used, at your request, to invite people to special programs in the church.

WUMC Guest Parking You are encouraged to invite persons to attend worship and other events at our church as our guests. When doing so you might tell them of these parking spaces, Center Street lot near the steps, reserved just for them. Regular worshipers are encouraged not to use these spaces so guests will find them available.

You are invited to call or email ahead to be certain Sherri will be in the office when you arrive. Feel free to use our door mail slot for drop-offs.

If you need to visit but can’t make it by 3pm, call to coordinate an after-hours visit on Wednesday until 6pm. Call Sherri before 3pm; after 3pm, please contact Greta at x25.

9am-3pm Mon—Fri closed for lunch

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FWS = The Faith We Sing UMH = United Methodist Hymnal W&S = Worship and Song

* You are invited to stand in heart or posture Bold print = Congregation Responds Music printed under CCLI#627547

WELCOME to our worship service, today. We pray that you may find the peace and encouragement of God’s presence during your time with us. Let us get a chance to know you. Join with our congregation in completing the “Welcome to Worship” registration form in your bulletin.

Rev. Malcolm Stranathan, Lead Pastor 410-660-6606 [email protected]

Rev. Shari McCourt, Associate Pastor 410-596-4040 [email protected]

Church Secretary 410-848-8325, x10

Financial Secretary 410-848-8325, x25

Facilities Manager 410-751-6151

Crossroads Christian Preschool 410-857-6177

CONTACT US

IN THE NARTHEX Large Print Hymnals

Large Print Bulletins

Children’s Worship Bulletins

CD 8:30am Worship Recording

Welcome Center with ministry flyers

ON REQUEST American Sign Language Interpretation

Available with prior notice, on request. Our office will provide interpreter contact info to discuss your needs and schedule.

Hearing Assisted Worship Ask an usher for assistance.

SUNDAY FELLOWSHIP Join us in the Martha Manahan room, between services.

Click here for Nursery Online Registration

Nursery with certified staff caring for children preschool and younger, at all services.

Click here for Sunday School Online Registration

Sunday School for all ages, September-May, 9:45am

Resuming September 11

Our Mission — “Be disciples … Make disciples” Matthew 28:19New International Version (NIV)

19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

Summer Sunday School, K-5th grade, through Aug 14. Ushers can direct you.

KidsZone for K-2nd; faith based videos, snacks, music; dismissal at 11am worship, following children’s sermon.

CHILDCARE AND EDUCATION

To Our Guests…..

Resuming September 11

Worship Key

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Today’s bulletins are dedicated in honor of Steph Seargeant’s 40th,

by Peg Pond

4 years and Younger

Meet in the Nursery with Miss Michelle and helpers.

K-5th Grade

Meet in Classroom #107 with Miss Jessica and helpers.

Our Ushers will be happy to direct you to these rooms.

Sunday School 11am, weekly

WUMC WUMC Calendar Calendar WebpageWebpage

September 11

Kick-off Sunday more info in next week’s bulletin

October 2

Church Picnic at Shipley’s Farm

Sponsor a weekly bulletin... in honor or memory of a loved one or event (i.e. anniversary, birthday, graduation).

The cost is just $25 for a regular Sunday. Sign up in the binder in our narthex.

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1.  Misconcep on:  Nonviolence is passive.  Not true.  Nonviolence is successful problem solving.  Success includes the idea that nobody has to use violence.  Problem solving is ac ve, not passive. 

2.  Misconcep on:  Nonviolence is cowardly.  Not true.  Cowards are just cowards; they are not using nonviolence.  Nonviolence calls for courage, and many of its most famous examples involved great courage.  

3.  Misconcep on:  Nonviolence is being nice to people.  Not true.  Nonviolence o en requires uncomfortable confronta on and the deliberate crea on of tension in order to solve a problem that people want to avoid. 

4.  Misconcep on:  Nonviolence is easy.  Not true.  Nonviolence is o en the path that requires courage, commitment, hard work against long odds, personal embarrassment (for awhile) and struggle. 

McDaniel College Westminster, MD 

The Ira & Mary Zepp Center for Nonviolence & Peace Educa on

Read more about misconcep ons and paradoxes of nonviolence  in Collyer & Zepp’s book  

Nonviolence:  Origins and Outcomes. 

Misconcep ons About Nonviolence 

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When angry, count to ten and use the  me to remind yourself of your long‐term goals. 

Ask “How could I make this situa on worse?” then go in another direc on.  (Another version:  “Does this situa on really need another jerk?”) 

In a crisis, speak calmly, but firmly, and do not shout or swear.  Use people’s first names.  Use calming body language.  Talk about the benefits of a peaceful solu on.  Affirm legi mate feelings but do not stoke the fires of revenge. 

Replace nega ve self‐talk with descrip on or more posi ve language. 

Do not kid yourself in “ac ng out.” (e.g. “I need to vent this anger.” or “I’m going to teach them a lesson.” or “It’s only what she deserves.”)  You can always find a more construc ve plan … if not today, then tomorrow. 

Prac ce the components of emo onal intelligence:  self‐awareness (knowing yourself), self‐regula on (keeping your cool), mo va on (being centered), empathy (standing in the other person’s shoes), and social skills (playing well with others).  These are skills that can be improved through learning over a whole life me as long as we value them and do not resist the learning process. 

Cul vate an a tude of agape, or basic good will toward others.  The idea that there is good in other people, and that they are worth caring about as brothers and sisters, almost always makes you more effec ve in dealing with them; it also helps to mo vate you in the use of other specific skills. 

McDaniel College Westminster, MD 

The Ira & Mary Zepp Center for Nonviolence & Peace Educa on

Prac cal  Nonviolence Skills 

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The UMYF is proud to present:

To benefit the Back to School Program WWhen: Sunday 14 August 2016 Noon - 2pm Where: Jubilee Hall What: Make your own Taco Bar, drinks, desserts. Sandwiches available for non-taco eaters Cost: $5 per person (cap of $15 per family)

� Bring in 3 items/sets of items from list on reverse and ticket is $4 (family cap $10)

� Bring in a backpack OR entire grade level kit of supplies (pre-K thru HS) and your ticket is free

All proceeds will benefit the Shepherd Staff Back to School program for local students

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Each bullet point counts as an item; purchase every item in a grade level kit to receive a free meal ticket.

Primary School Kit: 2 composition books 1 box crayons (24 max) 3 glue sticks 2 yellow highlighters 1 pair blunt scissors 4 pocket folders /brads 5 pencils 1 block eraser Intermediate thru Middle/High School Kit: 3 ring binder (1.5 inch) 3 ring binder paper (wide ruled) 1 set tabbed dividers 4 pocket folders /brads 5 pencils and 5 blue/black pens 2 highlighters 1 box coloured pencils (12) 1 pack 3x5 index cards Head Start/Pre-K Kit: 2 composition books 3 glue sticks 2 pocket folders 1 pair blunt scissors 3 boxes of fat crayons (8) 6 fat pencils Books: NEW or USED books in GOOD condition - Appropriate for pre-K thru High School Backpacks: NEW BACKPACKS to distribute to all registered students (no Wheels) Clothing: NEW or Gently USED Clothing in current styles & sizes 4T - XL teen.

There will also be a box set up in Mission Hallway in August to collect items. All items will be given to Shepherd Staff on 14 August. Monetary donations

can be given to any UMYF youth, checks made out to WUMC with UMYF BtS in the memo line.