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Don't Don't compare compare yourself yourself with any with any one in this one in this world. world. If you If you compare, you compare, you are insulting are insulting yourself. yourself.

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Don't Don't compare compare yourself yourself with any with any

one in this one in this world.world.

If you If you compare, you compare, you are insulting are insulting

yourself.yourself.

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No one will No one will manufacture a manufacture a

lock without a key.lock without a key.

Similarly God won't Similarly God won't give problems without give problems without

solutions.solutions.

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Life laughs Life laughs at you at you

when you when you are are

unhappy...unhappy...

Life smiles at Life smiles at you when you when you are happy...you are happy...Life salutes you Life salutes you when when you make others you make others happy...happy...

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Every successful person has a Every successful person has a painful story.painful story.

Every painful story has a Every painful story has a successful ending.successful ending.

Accept the pain and get Accept the pain and get ready for success.ready for success.

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Easy is to judge the mistakes of Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.others.Difficult is to recognize our own Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.mistakes.

It is easier to protect your feet with It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to cover the earth slippers than to cover the earth

with carpet.with carpet.

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No one can go back No one can go back and change a bad and change a bad beginning;beginning;

But anyone can start But anyone can start now and create a now and create a successful ending.successful ending.

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If a problem can If a problem can be solved, no be solved, no

need to worry need to worry about it.about it.

If a problem cannot If a problem cannot be solved what is the be solved what is the use of worrying?use of worrying?

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If you miss If you miss an an

opportunity opportunity don't fill the don't fill the

eyes with eyes with tears.tears.

  It will hide It will hide another better another better opportunity in opportunity in front of you front of you

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"Changing the Face" can change nothing."Changing the Face" can change nothing.But "Facing the Change" can change everything.But "Facing the Change" can change everything.

Don't complain about others;Don't complain about others;Change yourself if you want peace.Change yourself if you want peace.

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Mistakes are painful when they Mistakes are painful when they happen.happen.

But year's later collection But year's later collection of mistakes is called of mistakes is called experience, which leads to experience, which leads to success.success.

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Be bold when you looseBe bold when you looseand be calm when you win.and be calm when you win.

Heated gold becomes ornament. Heated gold becomes ornament.  Beaten copper becomes wires.    Beaten copper becomes wires.  

Depleted Depleted stone becomes statue.  So the stone becomes statue.  So the more pain you get in life you more pain you get in life you

become more valuable.become more valuable.Suresh.sSuresh.s

Just love Just love problemproblem

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Transaction Analysis by S.Suresh A.Vijaya bharghavi

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1. A theory of personality as well as a

systematic

psychotherapy for personal growth

and personal change.

2. Among psychological approaches,

it is outstanding in the depth of its

theory and the wide variety of its

applications.

3. It is finding wide application in

organizations and education.

What is Transactional Analysis ?

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Transactional Basis

Id – Pleasure PrincipleEgo- Realistic Principle(irrational)Super-Ego- Ethical Principle(mind)

By Fred Luthans

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EGO STATES

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Typical Behaviors

PARENT

Advising

Criticizing

Ordering

Telling

Fault

Finding

Moralizing

Scolding

Nurturing

Caring

Loving

ADULT

Fact Finding

Questioning

Analyzing

Problem

Solving

Helping

Cooperating

Planning

Coordinating

Scheduling

Thinking

CHILD

Laughing

Crying

Sulking

Being Frightened

Playing

Enjoying

Dancing

Curiosity

Obeying

Dependent

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"I'm OK - You're OK”

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Ego States Basic Needs I’m Not OK,You’re Not

OK

I’m OK, You’re not

OK

I’m OK You’re OK

I‘m Not OK,

You’re OK

Life Positions

ADULT Rationality CynicalTask

ObsessiveProblem Solving

PARENT

Over-whelming

Regulating Love, Care

Power

Traditional

Over Indulgent

Prescriptive

Rescuing

Normative

Supportive

Indifferent

Ingratiating

CHILD

Adaptive

Reactive

Creative

Nurturing

Approval, Safety

Aggression

Creativity

Sulking

Withdrawn

Humorous

Complaining

Aggressive

Bohemian

Resilient

Confronting

Innovative

Dependent

Intropunitive

Satirical

Ego States Basic Needs I’m Not OK,You’re Not

OK

I’m OK, You’re not

OK

I’m OK You’re OK

I‘m Not OK,

You’re OK

Life Positions

ADULT Rationality CynicalTask

ObsessiveProblem Solving

PARENT

Over-whelming

Regulating Love, Care

Power

Traditional

Over Indulgent

Prescriptive

Rescuing

Normative

Supportive

Indifferent

Ingratiating

CHILD

Adaptive

Reactive

Creative

Nurturing

Approval, Safety

Aggression

Creativity

Sulking

Withdrawn

Humorous

Complaining

Aggressive

Bohemian

Resilient

Confronting

Innovative

Dependent

Intropunitive

Satirical

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.Aim of Transactional Analysis

Psychotherapy

Aim of Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy

1.To help a person to choose to be in a particular

inner state, instead of just allowing the current

ego-state to dominate feelings, attitudes and

behavior.

2.Changing the Life Script

3.Replacing organizational or societal scripting

with cooperative non-violent behavior is the aim

of other applications of Transactional Analysis.

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Complementary transactions

• A complementary transaction occurs when a message, sent from a specific ego state, gets the predicted response from a specific ego state in the other person.

• For example, if a wife who is grieving her lost friend is comforted by a sympathetic husband, her momentary dependency is answered appropriately.

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.. Crossed Transactions

A crossed transaction occurs when an unexpected response is made to the stimulus. An inappropriate ego state is activated, and the lines of communication between people are crossed.

At this point people tend to withdraw, turn away from each other or switch the conversation in another direction.

For example, Agent's Adult: "Do you know where my cuff links are?" (note that this stimuli is directed at the Respondents Adult).Respondent's Child: "You always blame me for everything!"

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Crossed transactions are a frequent source of pain between people

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Ulterior TransactionsUlterior transactions are the most complex. They

differ from complementary and crossed transactions in that they always involve two or more ego states.

Only one ego state controls the body; but another ego state is operating in the background.If a car salesman says to his customer, "This is our finest sports car...but maybe too racy for you," he is sending a message that can be heard by either the customer’s adult or child ego state.

If the customer’s Adult hears, the response may be... "yes, you’re right, considering the requirements of my job." If the customer’s Child hears, the response may be "I’ll take it. It’s just what I want."

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Thus ulterior transactions help us to get the desired response from the respondent.

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The original three Parent Adult Child components were sub-divided by Wagner, Joines and Mountain to form seven element model.

Original 3 parental adult child components

Traditional

Transactional

Analysis

Modified into 7 elements.

Modern

Transactional

Analysis

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Modern TA established 2 parental elements:

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Adult

Represents an 'accounting'

function or mode

Adult remains as a single entity

Which can draw on The resources

of both Parent and Child.

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Child

Child is now commonly represented as circle with four quadrants:

Adapted - Co-operative (positive) and Compliant/Resistant (negative).

Free - Spontaneous (positive) and Immature (negative).

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CONCLUSION

Transactional analysis is a rational and easy-to-understand method of clarifying and managing human relationships and behaviors.

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Thank you