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Stop Talking to Yourself: How you can start conversations that build awareness, friendships and funding Presented by Gayle L. Gifford, ACFRE President www.ceffect.com [email protected] 401.331.2272

Stop talking to yourself: How you can start conversations that build awareness, friendships and fundraising

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Feeling stuck in your nonprofit? Having trouble finding solutions? Maybe that’s because you’re just talking to yourself. The best way out? Take the conversation out of your nonprofit organization! Few things can build nonprofit energy and support as dramatically as getting board members and staff out into the world to ask others what they think about your organization and the challenges you face. Gayle L. Gifford, ACFRE, President of Cause and Effect Inc. www.ceffect.com will share practical tips and tested-techniques for creating productive and rewarding conversations.

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Stop Talking to Yourself: How you can start conversations that build awareness, friendships and funding

Presented by Gayle L. Gifford, ACFRE President

www.ceffect.com [email protected] 401.331.2272

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Stop Talking to Yourself: How you can start conversations that build awareness, friendships and funding

Gayle L. Gifford, ACFRE ________________________________________________________________________

Copyright (c) 2011 by

www.ceffect.com [email protected]

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If you want advice, ask for money. If you want money, ask for advice. - Unknown

Topics

Why conversations

Two models for starting conversations

You know you need to do something differently when...

Your board is shrinking or aging

Your revenues are stagnant or falling

You keep having the same conversations over and over

You hear about important meetings you weren’t invited to

You have disagreements about direction that you can’t seem to solve

You are angry at board members for not spontaneously raising money

You haven’t seen the outside of your office in ages

Major funders, legislators or other important people don’t know anything about you

You can’t get the media to pay attention to you

Here’s a remedy: Go meet people.

Ask them questions.

Listen to what they say.

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Gayle L. Gifford, ACFRE November 30, 2011

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Three Good Reasons for Having More Conversations

Greatness has more to do with how nonprofits work outside the boundaries of their organizations than with how they manage their internal operations. – Heather McLeod Grant & Leslie Crutchfield, Forces for Good

1. You build critical abilities that are essential for survival.

Ability to build relationships

Ability to tell your story

Ability to engage people and nurture their participation

“Supporting financial vibrancy in the quest for sustainability in the nonprofit sector” Marilyn, Struthers, Ontario Trillium Foundation 2004, on a study of 60 vibrant and growing Canadian nonprofits including ones that had recovered from “near death.”

2. You increase your social capital

Increase network connections & influence

Gain valuable information and connect into information pipelines

Improve your access to people, resources and information

“The more connected you are to other people, information and opportunities, the more value you can extract from your environment.” Bill Traynor, Lowell CDC, Nonprofit Quarterly

3. You build evangelists

High impact nonprofits find creative ways to convert core supporters to evangelists. *

Practice builds new behaviors and increases confidence in talking about your organization

Insights have more impact and are more lasting when they are generated from within

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* Source: Forces for Good, 6 traits of high impact nonprofits

And one more: It’s not what you know, it’s who you hang out with.

Many people live in “information ghettos*” *Alex Pentland of MIT’s Human Dynamics Lab

Why formally-structured conversations? Many people don’t have a natural gift of gab

Provides right support for reluctant conversationalists

Helps you talk to people who might not respond to something informal

Who to talk to? Experts about your issues

Your peers

Current and former supporters

Community foundations & other important funders

Business interests

Faith leaders

People who know everyone

Political leadership & government officials

Your adversaries

Anyone else who might lead you to valuable information or needed resources

What’s the excuse? Conducting a community scan for updating your strategic plan

Getting input on strategic plan objectives & strategies

Getting feedback on how your organization is serving your donors

Considering launching a new program

Finding out what the donors think about the issues you address

Learning what is on the horizon

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Technique 1: One-on-One Interview

Develop the questions you’d like to ask

o Questions about your donors/colleagues/partners

o Questions about your cause

o Questions about your organization

o Questions about your relationship

o Questions about the future

Send formal request for interview

o Cover letter

o Brief backgrounder

o Letter or email depends

Follow-up right away to schedule the interview

Prepare

Hold the interview

o Break the ice

o Ask the questions – the goal is for them to talk, not you. Don’t be defensive.

o Take notes

o Observe

o Thank

Follow-up and follow-through

o Thank you note

o Follow-through with any commitments made

o Write up what you learned

o Debrief

o Schedule next action

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SMALL GROUP WORK

What questions would you like to ask?

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Technique 2: The Group Charette

Invite multiple stakeholders into the room together to work on a question you pose

o Visioning

o Challenge facing you

o Feedback on your new strategic plan or campaign

o Brainstorming how to move plan to action

Half day with food (you have to have food)

Determine your question – make it compelling for attendees to show up

Consider whether you need an outside facilitator to help you design the process

Develop your list

Send letters of invitation with backgrounder

Follow-up to confirm attendance – aim for 15-25 people, depending on your skill facilitating a large group

Could be advance tour

Short presentation with Q&A, then make sure the session is interactive, get people talking in small groups and feeding back to the big group

Follow-up with notes and one-on-one as appropriate

A few other large group processes

World Café

Focus Group

Learning Group

Study Circles

Future Search

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A Few Resources:

Block, P. 2008. Community: the structure of belonging. Berrett-Koehler Publishers.

Crutchfield, L. & McLeod Grant, H. (2007). Forces for Good, The six practices of high impact nonprofits. Jossey-Bass.

Gottlieb, H. (2006). Friendraising, community engagement strategies for boards who hate fundraising but love making friends. Renaissance Press.

Struthers, Marilyn. “Supporting Financial Vibrancy in the Quest for Sustainability in the Not-for-Profit Sector.” CIO Symposium. July 9, 2004.

Sussman, C. “Building Adaptive Capacity: the quest for improved organizational performance” http://tinyurl.com/46lknuk

Weisbord, M.R. and Janoff, S. (2000) Future Search. Berrett-Koehler Publishers

TheWorldCafé.com

My Action Plan

Make a list of people you’d like to talk to

Find out who on your board would be willing to do interviews with you

Assess whether charette or other large group process would be useful to your organization

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Dreaming about a bigger impact? Want to get better at what you do? Let us help you. Research* shows that those community benefit organizations with a big impact:

Pay attention to what is happening around them by listening and learning. Value collaboration and nurture leadership. Build evangelists among their volunteers, donors, staff, and advisors. Act strategically by taking advantage of opportunities. Serve well and advocate for systems changes that can magnify their impact.

That’s what we’ve been helping our clients do for over a decade.

Our experiences as staff at respected national, international and local organizations and our consultation with scores of others proved to us the effectiveness of these practices. We use them in our own work.

We can help you: Build a more engaged Board of Directors. Listen and learn from research and the community around you. Plot a future course based on strategic thinking and acting. Develop a plan to enhance your revenues and state your case more effectively.

About Cause & Effect Inc. President, Gayle L. Gifford, ACFRE and Vice President Jonathan W. Howard bring many years of experience to their consulting work with nonprofits. Gayle’s expertise includes governance, strategic and business planning, organization

and fund development, and public engagement design. She teaches organization development at Simmons College and Brown University. An in-demand consultant, trainer and provocative writer, Gayle writes for Contributions Magazine and is author of How are We Doing? a popular guide to evaluating your board.

Jon’s expertise includes research, interviewing, strategic and business planning, international project management, and production of all aspects of organizational communications including direct mail, collateral materials, videos, newsletters, manuals, and exhibits. Jon’s work has taken him around the world, including staging two major exhibits on habitat presented at the United Nations in New York City, Turkey and Japan.

Our clients have included, among many others, Community Works Rhode Island, Connecticut Fund for the Environment, Grassroots International, House of the Seven Gables Settlement Association, Essex National Heritage Commission, The Diaper Bank, New Roots Providence, PLAN USA, PLAN International, Progreso Latino, Rhode Island Foundation, WaterFire Providence, & Women’s Voices for the Earth.

You’ll find free articles and tools that you can use today at www.ceffect.com. You can also subscribe to our blog, The Butterfly Effect, at www.ceffect.com/blog or follow our Tweets @gaylegifford. *Adapted from Forces for Good: Six Practices of High Impact Nonprofits. L. Crutchfield & H. McLeod Grant. Jossey-Bass. 2007.