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The Verity Experience Speaker Series October 23, 2012 Beth Buelow, ACC, CPC The Introvert Entrepreneur Chatty Cathys & Quiet Keiths: Bridging the Communication Gap

Chatty Cathys & Quiet Keiths: Bridging the Communication Gap

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“Why can’t they just figure it out on their own?” “What is taking him so long?!” “Why does she keep talking about stuff she doesn’t know about?” “Why can’t we ever have a productive team meeting?” In the typical workplace, there are a wide range of personality types, all trying to accomplish the same thing but having very different ways of doing it. We often label others as “control freaks” or “fly by the seat of her pants” types, sometimes using even less flattering terminology. Underneath those behaviors is a core personality trait – being introverted or extroverted – that informs whether we prefer to have lots of space or be rapid fire. So many business challenges have their roots in poor communication. This seminar will close the communication gap between the introverts and extroverts in your business, which opens up everyone to greater productivity and profitability. (PS: Don’t be surprised if you learn some things that help with your personal relationships, too!) Presented by Beth Buelow, a professional speaker and certified coach who speaks fluent introvert.

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The Verity Experience Speaker SeriesOctober 23, 2012

Beth Buelow, ACC, CPCThe Introvert Entrepreneur

Chatty Cathys & Quiet Keiths:

Bridging the Communication Gap

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What’s Your IQ*?(use #2 pencils only, please)

* Introvert Quotient

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What’s Your IQ*?

* Introvert Quotient

1. This psychologist coined the term “introvert” in the 1920s:

a) Ivan Pavlov

b) Sigmund Freud

c) B.F. Skinner

d) Carl Jung

e) None of the above

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What’s Your IQ*?

* Introvert Quotient

1. This psychologist coined the term “introvert” in the 1920s:

a) Ivan Pavlov

b) Sigmund Freud

c) B.F. Skinner

d) Carl Jung

e) None of the above

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What’s Your IQ*?

* Introvert Quotient

2. The general US population is roughly

a) 25% innie, 75% outtie

b) 10% innie, 90% outtie

c) 60% innie, 40% outtie

d) 50% innie, 50% outtie

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What’s Your IQ*?

* Introvert Quotient

2. The general US population is roughly

a) 25% innie, 75% outtie

b) 10% innie, 90% outtie

c) 60% innie, 40% outtie

d) 50% innie, 50% outtie

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What’s Your IQ*?

* Introvert Quotient

3. Introverts are:

a) Shy

b) Antisocial

c) Party Poopers

d) Energized by solitude

e) Serial killers in waiting

f) All of the above

g) None of the above

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What’s Your IQ*?

* Introvert Quotient

3. Introverts are:

a) Shy

b) Antisocial

c) Party Poopers

d) Energized by solitude

e) Serial killers in waiting

f) All of the above

g) None of the above

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How would you describe yourself?

Introverted or Extroverted?

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Introvert ≠

Shy

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A Few Disclaimers…

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Closing the Communication Gap:

Stuff to Understand

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Introverts do best with

space and quiet to gather and process their thoughts; extroverts enjoy

stimulating group work.

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In general, introverts like to

listen, extroverts like to

talk.

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In most situations, introverts

process internally, and extroverts externally.

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Know that extroverts prefer

face-to-face, verbal communication, while introverts tend to prefer

written communication.

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Extroverts tend to be

outwardly expressive

and easier to read; Introverts appear to be more

measured and reserved. www.TheIntrovertEntrepreneur.com

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Closing the Communication Gap:

Stuff to Do

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Set clear expectations and measures of success. (PS: and be thoughtful about PDA)

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Give everyone (esp. innies) permission to share ideas that are

imperfect and

incomplete.

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Keep meetings

on topic and on time.

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Silence is golden.

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Trust your process.

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Resources

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Thank You!

Beth Buelow, ACC, CPCProfessional Speaker, Certified Coach,

Author

TheIntrovertEntrepreneur.com