Connecting while Correcting

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This is the Power Point I used at the 2013 Parenting @IBC conference.

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Connecting While Correcting

www.onebighappyhome.com Parenting Conference 2013 PARENTING FOR REAL

Sharing control proves that you are in control

www.onebighappyhome.com Parenting Conference 2013 PARENTING FOR REAL

The question you have to ask yourself is this the hill you want to die on today?

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What do you have in your toolbox?

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A real choice is when two equal but different options are presented

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Teaching your children the power of compromise is groundbreaking

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Sharing control proves that you are in control

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A redo is an opportunity to teach your children about grace and repentance

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Even consequences are an opportunity to connect

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Parenting is often about building walls when it should be about building bridges

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What is the IDEAL response?

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If you want to change or reinforce a behavior the response must be within 3 seconds

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When you interact with your child be close, look them in the eye and talk to them

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Deal with the issue don’t preach a sermon

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Correct action makes correct body memory, create motor memory for the right thing

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You response needs to be specific to the behavior you are trying to change

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