Emotional Intelligence for Everyone 2015 feb-24

EMOTIONAL

INTELLIGENCE FOR

EVERYONE

BY

ANTHONY C. MERSINO

PMP, PMI-ACP, CSPFOUNDER, VITALITY CHICAGO

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Source: Peter Salovey and John Mayer, Emotional Intelligence, Psychology Today, 1990.

“Emotional Intelligence is the ability to monitor

one’s own and others feelings and emotions,

to discriminate among them,

and to use this information

to guide one’s thinking and actions.”

-Peter Salovey and John Mayer

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AN EQ FRAMEWORK FOR PROJECT LEADERS

Source: Mersino, Anthony. Emotional Intelligence for Project Managers. AMACOM. 2013.

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1. Self-Awareness

• Emotional Self-Awareness

• Accurate Self-Assessment

• Self-Confidence

2. Self-Management

• Self-Control

3. Social Awareness

• Empathy

• Organizational Awareness

• Seeing Others

• Emotional Boundaries

4. Relationship Management

• Stakeholder Relationships

• Developing Others

• Telling the Truth

5. Team Leadership

• Communications

• Conflict Management

• Inspirational Leadership

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WHY EMOTIONAL

INTELLIGENCE?

LISTENING

SKILLS

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RELATIONSHIPS

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LEADERSHIP

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PERSONAL

WELL-BEING

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PROFESSIONAL

SUCCESS

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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

SELF-AWARENESS

• Emotional Self-

Awareness

• Accurate Self-

Assessment

• Self Confidence

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EMOTIONAL SELF-AWARENESS

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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

SELF-CONTROL

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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

SELF-CONTROL

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ADDITIONAL READINGS

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER

Anthony MersinoAgile Transformation Coach & Founder of Vitality Chicago

• Passionate about helping individuals and teams improve

• 27+ years as IT PM & Program Manager, PMO Lead, and Troubled Project

Recovery Expert

• 6 years teaching Agile and supporting adoption; Trained hundreds of individuals

and coached dozens of teams

• MBA; PMP, CSP and PMI-ACP Certifications

• Author of “Agile Project Managers” and “Emotional Intelligence for Project

Managers; the People Skills You Need to Succeed”

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