how to make long distance relationships work

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What is the meaning of

What is the meaning of

LONG DISTANCE

RELATIONSHIP??

A long-distance relationship or

LDR is typically an intimate

relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable

distance.

living apart can be stressfuland lonely for relational

partners and most couples probably prefer

living in the same place. (M. Carole Pistole and Amber

Roberts)

As a human, we need to give full effort in the success of this

relationship.

How to Make a Long Distance

Relationship Work

NO 1.

NO 1.

Consider using video chat calls as often as possible,

NO 1.

Consider using video chat calls as often as possible,

Text messaging and Phone calls every day.

NO 2

NO 2 Ask the important questions

NO 2

to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the

relationship.

Ask the important questions

NO 2

to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maintain what they need.

Ask the important questions

NO 3

NO 3

Do things together

NO 3

Defy the distance. As a long distance couple, it's important to do other things together besides the usual

phone call.

Do things together

"The best and most beautiful things in the

world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." - Helen

Keller

NO 4

NO 4 Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible.

NO 4

Write love letters. Send small gifts, cards, or send flowers for no reason

Communicate in other way every day, more than once if possible.

NO 5Take advantage of the

benefits a long distance relationship offers

NO 5Take advantage of the

benefits a long distance relationship offers

Most important, just benefits every single time that u have.

NO 6Pursue common interests, even if it means

pursuing them apart.

Find creative ways to bond.

NO 6Pursue common interests, even if it means

pursuing them apart.

NO 7Avoid the temptation to be

controlling.

NO 7Avoid the temptation to be

controlling.

As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick

with it and distance will not make a difference.

NO 7Avoid the temptation to be

controlling.

As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick

with it and distance will not make a difference.

Just have a trust to your partner.

NO 8Try challenging each other.

NO 8Try challenging each other.

It will give you something to do while you wait to see your partner again, and it will give you both something for talk about

until then.

NO 9Talk about your future together.

NO 9Talk about your future together.

Assuming that ultimately you'd want to live together.

NO 10Avoid jealousy and be trusting.

NO 10Avoid jealousy and be trusting.

Maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves.

NO 11Give a personal object

NO 11Give a personal object

Give them a personal object of yours so in a time of need,

NO 12Remember that you're still in a relationship.

NO 12Remember that you're still in a relationship.

You HAVE to be there for your partner.

NO 13Be positive.

NO 13Be positive.

Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects to keeping your

relationship blooming and your partner content.

Lastly…Remember

Lastly…Remember

Things will get better with time, and even the relationship will

become better.

Lastly…Remember

Things will get better with time, and even the relationship will

become better.

Have hope.

ReferencesChris. (n.d). How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work. Retrieved December 22, 2010, from http://www.howtomakelongdistancerelationshipswork.com/how-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work

M. Carole Pistole,Roberts.A.(n.d). Measuring Long-Distance Romantic Relationships:A Validity Study, 63 – 76.

M. Sahlstein. E. (October 2004). Relating at a distance: Negotiating being together and being apart in long-distance relationships, 689-710.

FEHR,B (2012), Encylopedia of Human Behavior (second edition), 205-213

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