The Reality Model. Getting the Results YOU Want!

The Reality Model

Getting the Results

YOU Want!

Six Reasons Why We Don’t Achieve…Better Results:

• We don’t know what to do differently.• We don’t know how to do differently.• We don’t know why to do differently.• Our “chosen” situations won’t allow

us to do differently.• We don’t want to do differently.• Our beliefs/principles need work.

Definition of Results:

“Results are the outcomes—the visible, tangible consequences of a particular action.”

Definition of Insanity:

“To keep doing what you’ve been doing and expecting different results!”

Objectives:• Identify underlying human needs that

influence our belief system.• Understand how our belief system

influences our rules to live by, behavior patterns and actions.

• Understand how our behavior patterns and actions influence personal and business results.

• Understand that by changing our belief system, we can change our rules, behavior patterns, actions, and get better personal and business results.

Gaining Control!!!???

Addictive Behavior:

“Compulsive behavior with short-term benefits and long-term destruction.”

The Reality Model(Hyrum W. Smith, The Franklin International Institute)

Human Needs

Belief Window

Rules Behavior

Patterns

Results

Feedback Mechanism

The Reality Model

Live

Love/Be Loved

Feel Important

Variety

Human Needs

The Reality Model

Belief Window

Principles Live

Love/Be Loved

Feel Important

Variety

Human Needs

The Reality Model

If…, then... Principles

RulesBelief Window

Live

Love/Be Loved

Feel Important

Variety

Human Needs

The Reality Model

Actions If…, then... Principles

Behavior

Patterns

ResultsBelief Window

Live

Love/Be Loved

Feel Important

Variety

Human Needs

Rules

The Reality Model

Human Needs

Belief Window

Rules Behavior

Patterns

Results

Feedback Mechanism

7 Natural Laws:• If the results of your behavior do not meet your needs, then there

is an incorrect principle on your belief window.• Results take time to measure.• Growth is the process of changing principles on your belief window.• Addictive behavior is the result of deep and unmet needs.• If your self-worth is dependent on anything external, you are in big

trouble.• When the results of your behavior do meet your needs over time,

you experience inner peace.• The mind naturally seeks harmony when presented with two

opposing principles.

The Reality Model

Human Needs

Belief Window

Rules Behavior/

Actions

Results

Live Love/Be

Loved

Variety

Feel Importa

nt

Principles If…, Then...

Actions Results

Feedback Mechanism

Steps to Gettingthe Results YOU Want:• Identify the result that needs to change, and a new desired

result.• Identify the behavior pattern and actions that currently

exist.• Identify the rules that are guiding the behavior pattern and

actions. • Identify the principle that might be affecting the rules.• Identify the human need that is trying to be satisfied.• Identify a new principle that might positively influence new

rules, behavior pattern, actions, and the new desired result.• Identify the new behavior pattern, actions, and the new

desired result one might expect to observe/perceive.

“Success isn’t final, and failure isn’t fatal.”

The Business Results???

The Personal Results???

Summary:

• Realize that human needs influence our belief system.

• Understand how our belief system influences our rules, behavior patterns and actions.

• Understand how our behavior patterns and actions influence personal and business results.

• Understand that by changing our belief system, we can change our rules, behavior patterns and actions to get better personal and business results.

Affirmations:

Repeat these affirmations to reinforce the path

to better results:– I am capable of changing my beliefs

and principles. It is my choice!– I enjoy changing my behavior pattern

and actions when necessary.– I love creating new results.– I thoroughly accept that I am

responsible for every aspect of my life.