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TALKING WITH TEENS

CONVERSATION CARDS

Are you a parent of a teen? Do you have teens in your life that look to you for support and guidance? These cards are focused on strengthening healthy relationships and connections between youth and adults.

TALKING WITH TEENS

BUILD TRUST TO INSPIRE ONGOING CONVERSATIONS.

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If you could have any super power what would it be? Why?

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If you had that super power for one day, what would you do?

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What are some things you love about your school?

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What are some things you would change?

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What is your favorite tradition?

What makes you like it the most?

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What traditions would you like to pass on to others?

4

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What does a good role model look like?

Is it different for teens and adults?

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What makes it hard to be a good role model?

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What are the things you like talking about?

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How do you choose who to talk to about certain things?

TALKING WITH TEENS

TALK ABOUT PEER AND DATING RELATIONSHIPS.

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How are relationships different in real life than in the media?

(Books, movies or music?)

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How are break-ups different in real life than in the media?

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Describe your perfect relationship. How would you treat each other?

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What are the things that you won’t put up with?

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Is being in a relationship important to you? Your friends? Why?

3

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What is fun about starting to date?

What are you not sure about?

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What do you or your friends like about being in a relationship?

4

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What do you or your friends not like about being in a relationship?

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What makes a relationship healthy and happy?

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What makes a relationship stop being healthy?

TALKING WITH TEENS

TALK ABOUT TAKING ACTION, RESPECT AND GETTING HELP.

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What do you like about our community?

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What could you do to make it better?

What could adults do?

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What kinds of things do you see happen that make you feel uncomfortable?

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What do people do when these things happen?

What could you do?

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What does bullying look like at school?

In our community?

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How do others help stop bullying?

What could you do to help stop it?

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What does abuse look like?

How do you know if someone is being abused?

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How would you help a friend if you found out they were in an abusive situation?

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What does the word respect really mean?

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How do people show each other respect?

TALKING WITH TEENS

TALK ABOUT TEXTING, SOCIAL NETWORKING AND TECHNOLOGY.

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How do people act different online than in person?

What makes it different?

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How do you wish people would treat each other online?

What would that look like?

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I’ve heard the term cyber bullying, what does this mean?

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What does it have in common with real life bullying?

What’s the difference?

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Do your friends share their passwords? (Facebook, email, phone etc.)

Do you think it’s ok to do this?

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What if they are sharing with family? A dating partner?

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How do you decide who to share your passwords with?

4

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What would happen if you didn’t want to share?

What would you do?

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What are the unspoken rules about texting?

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How do you feel when someone texts you a lot, or doesn’t text you back?

A FEW TIPS TO REMEMBER:

• Don’t expect to have all of the answers,

it is ok not to know, figure it out together!

• Inspire conversation by opening up

about your own experiences.

• The more you are willing to share,

the more they will be willing to share

with you.

• Listen and support your teen.

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