How Not To Text Girls

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Most guys think they know how to flirt with a girl over text. But in reality, many of them are making a bunch of

mistakes that are destroying their chances with the girl of their dream.

In this article, you are going to read about text messaging girls and what to text a girl about.

The sad thing is, most of the time, these mistakes are very easily avoidable. In fact, there are 3 very common, yet

very deadly mistakes that guys often make.

Let\'s go through them and discuss each one in detail. Try to spot which one you are guilty of.

Let\'s begin...

Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A Reply

You should never send a girl multiple text messages without her first replying back to your original message.

This is only OK when the first message didn\'t go through.

Barring that, this is an important rule that you should always follow.

Why is this so important?

Because this makes you look needy. It\'s like constantly talking to someone who won\'t even talk back to you.

This will cost you major brownie points.

The shift the power over to her. The more you keep texting her without her replying, the more it becomes apparent

that she is the prize and you are just begging to talk to her.

Hey, you two only just met. Don\'t give her the impression that you are already picking out the wedding dress.

Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring With The First Text That You Send Her

Just like everything else, first impression is critical. The first message you send will be the one that cause her to decide whether or not to reply back. It\'s almost like an

advertisement.

Here\'s the typical first message a lot of guys uses:

\"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just wanted to say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting you...blah blah

blah.\"

That\'s not a good first message.That\'s boring. It doesn\'t pull her in and make her want to text back.

Here\'s something you need to remember...

You Are NOT Special To Her!

OK, that was a little harsh. Sorry about that.

But listen, the truth is, the girl (especially if she\'s hot) probably gave her numbers out to a bunch of different guys last night (girls do that.) So saying, \"Hi this is...\"

does not mean that she is going to remember you. And if she doesn\'t remember you, she won\'t reply!

A better way would be to say something that will get her back into that head space that she was in when she met

you. Something like...

\"Wow, do you remember that fight last night? I\'m still laughing my ass off. - Henry\"

Or...

\"Oh my god. I just realized who you look like...\"

Girls always care when you mention something about their looks, so this statement will get her attention.

Also, in this message, you are also using another technique called callback humor to get her to remember the positive

feelings she had when she met you. More on this in the future.

Text Game Mistake #3: Being Too Formal

This is not 18th century England. So don\'t send her messages like...

\"Dear Stacey, I\'m really glad we had a chance to talk last night and I had a very pleasant time...\"

Instead as yourself how you would talk to your friends. Think of how you would talk to your own friend. Would

you tease them and crack jokes if they did something stupid?. (The obvious exception would be if she is foreign or is highly educated and is turned by bad grammar and

slang.)

Instead of saying something like, \"How\'s your day going?\", you could say something like...

\"Wow, I just had the craziest day. I don\'t think you can top it. How\'s yours going?\"

This also makes her a little curious.

It\'s much easier to escalate things to a sexual level if you start off with a playful and teasing dynamic.

If you think none of this apply to you, watch out. You don\'t want to be like all the other guys out there who...

Screw up their chances with the girl that they like.

Don\'t make the same mistakes. The pitfalls that I\'ve mentioned might sound simple but by avoid them, you can

double or triple your chances with a girl.

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