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Learning Targets Take more initiative & responsibility Learn how to pause and respond based on principles Understand how to use proactive language Know how to expand Circle of Influence Understand ways to become a transition person
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7 Habits for Statesville MiddleHabit #1 Be Proactive
Learning TargetsTake more initiative & responsibilityLearn how to pause and respond based on principlesUnderstand how to use proactive languageKnow how to expand Circle of InfluenceUnderstand ways to become a transition person
Habit 1Be Proactive
When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
-Viktor Frankl
The Stages of the Maturity ContinuumFoundation
Demonstrate how to draw the continuum; Make a Z and then additional lineForm boxes at top, bottom and middleUpside down triangle on bottom and rightside up triangle on topCircle around*
Habit 1: Be ProactiveHabit1Be Proactive
Habit 1PrincipleParadigmBehaviorResultI am free to chooseand am responsiblefor my choices.Habit1Be Proactive
Ineffective: I am a product of my circumstancesEffective: I am a product of my choices
Result: increased influence, more self-awareness, greater initiative, becoming the creative force of your lifeBehavior: pause and respond based on principles, use proactive language, expand your circle of influence and become a transition person.*
Habit 1ParadigmsHabit1Be ProactiveIneffective: I am a product of my circumstances.Effective: I am a product of my choices.
VideoHabit1Be ProactiveCarry Your Own Weather
Reactive BehaviorHabit1Be ProactiveRespond based on moods, feelings,and circumstances.
Proactive BehaviorHabit1Be ProactivePause and respond based on principles.
The Four Human EndowmentsHabit1Be ProactiveSelf-Awareness: Our ability to examine our own thoughts, moods, and behaviorsImagination: Our ability to visualize beyond our current experience and circumstancesConscience: Our understanding of rightand wrongIndependent Will: Our ability to act independent of external influences
Whine ListHabit1Be ProactiveRound 1: Tell your partner all of your have tos and must dos coming up in the next week.Round 2: Convert the have tos and must dos into I choose to or Im going to.
VideoHabit1Be ProactiveProactive Language
Proactive vs. Reactive LanguageHabit1Be ProactiveI decided toThey made meI am going toI have toTheres got to beIt cant be doneanother way?_____________?______________
VideoHabit1Be ProactiveCircle of Influence
The Circle of InfluenceHabit1Be Proactive
xQ Tells YouHabit1Be Proactive31%People focus on thingsthey can impact rather thanon things they cant.
Become a Transition PersonHabit1Be Proactive
VideoHabit1Be ProactiveStone
Teach to LearnHabit1Be Proactive
Demonstrate how to draw the continuum; Make a Z and then additional lineForm boxes at top, bottom and middleUpside down triangle on bottom and rightside up triangle on topCircle around*Ineffective: I am a product of my circumstancesEffective: I am a product of my choices
Result: increased influence, more self-awareness, greater initiative, becoming the creative force of your lifeBehavior: pause and respond based on principles, use proactive language, expand your circle of influence and become a transition person.*
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