Life Coaching in Agile Thinking

Agile Coaching? Sure thing! What about Life Coaching in Agile Thinking?

REA Group

02/09/2013 | Agile Coaching Circles Meetup Melbourne

@realestate_auVictoria Schiffer @Erdbeervogel

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“You don’t have to be sick to become better!”

(Michael Josephson)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/ (Tambako the Jaguar)Monday, 2 September 13

“The devil you know is better than the devil you don't know!”

“But is there a devil at all on the new road?”

Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/9352616577 (Tambako the Jaguar)

Support

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/gnuckx/8076464389 (Gnuckx)

forwardmove

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goals

“Setting a negative goal is like going shopping with a list of things that you do not want to buy.” Joseph O’Connor

& Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/smitty/199457812 (smitty42)

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/carbonnyc/8456219474 (CarbonNYC)

The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday. (Unknown)

You!

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/tmab2003/4277896845/ (TMAB2003)

It’sYou!

aboutMonday, 2 September 13

Filter

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kevinpoh/4545094285 (kevinpoh)Monday, 2 September 13

1stExercise

“Perspectives”

See next slideMonday, 2 September 13

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:My_Wife_and_My_Mother-in-Law.jpgMonday, 2 September 13

Beliefs

http://www.flickr.com/photos/baileysjunk/3631094798 (BaileyRaeWeaver)

“What the thinker thinks, the prover proves!”

(Robert Anton Wilson)

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“Life is 10% How You Make It and 90% How you Take It“ (Irving Berlin)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mabahamo/4751785617 (Manuel Bahamondez H) Choice

AttitudeMonday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/peter-trimming/6611749509 (Peter G Trimming)

Pull, not push

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‘But’ is the great eraser.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/snakebiteheart-/6847637842 (SnakeBite Heart)

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluehillranch/6420193921 (305 Seahill)

EmpoweringLimiting

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Pressure Words

Abstract Words

shouldmust have to

need to ought to

failure

relationship

stress

want to

don’t want toChoice

frustration

success

Unconsidered Opinionsbetter

obviously clearly

worse

Overgeneralizationsnever

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Beliefs

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/criminalintent/5229017560 (Lars Plougmann)

“Life begins at the end ofyour comfort zone.”

(Neale Donald Walsch, Autor)

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There is a solution to every problem. (NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/eriwst/2421129047 (eriwst)

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Anything can be accomplished when the task is taken in small enough chunks.

(NLP Presupposition)

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You cannot not communicate

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/marcel030nl/2556824810 (Marcel030NL)Monday, 2 September 13

The Meaning of Your Communication is the response you get

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/markusthorsen/3091394736 (markusthorsen)Monday, 2 September 13

“I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.“

(Benjamin Franklin)

FailureFeedback

is only

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeparker/1393311040 (Michael H Parker)Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/56380734@N05/5914710795 (Comrade Foot Jens Rost)

Every behaviour has a positive intention.

(NLP Presupposition)

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/laserstars/908946494 (jpctalbot)

“You have not yet reached the limit of what you are capable of.”

Ability

Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages

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2nd (Group)Exercise

“Listening”

See next slideMonday, 2 September 13

Groups of 3

1 observing

controversial issueTalk about

2 chatting

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Get your

out of the way!http://www.flickr.com/photos/angeldye/7967897282 (angeldye)Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparetomato/2641110677 (sparetomato)

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” (Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)

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silence!courage for

http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulholloway/2104762221 (Paul Holloway)Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcleod/7004084690 (Scott McLeod)

“Question everything. Learn something. Answer nothing.” (Euripides)

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PowerfulQuestions

http://www.flickr.com/photos/hygienematters/5452837491 (SCA Svenska Cellulosa Aktiebolaget)

What...? How...? When...?

Why...?

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FreshPerspective

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mathias-erhart/280056079 (mathias-erhart)

What If...?Monday, 2 September 13

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Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea LagesMonday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/visualpunch/8745184787 (visualpun.ch)Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/6861256042 (kevin dooley)

Meetings

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Decision

http://www.flickr.com/photos/inafrenzy/5787848646 (InaFrenzy)

making

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PerformanceReviews

http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeontheedge/6871511101 (Marshall Astor - Food Fetishist)Monday, 2 September 13

Conversationhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/gibbons/1400055656 (Esther Gibbons)

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Difficult Situationshttp://www.flickr.com/photos/31762350@N03/4090808706 (al_bee)

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Different people, great variety

http://www.flickr.com/photos/nagarjun/6387774307 (Nagarjun)Monday, 2 September 13

Learninghttp://www.flickr.com/photos/telachhe/3342173731 (Tela Chhe)

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/jayneandd/4451411132 (jayneandd)

Success Monday, 2 September 13

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kheelcenter/5279692906/ von Kheel Center, Cornell University

Happy Team

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http://www.flickr.com/photos/frenchy/30217136/ (Francois Schnell)

Steps?

What are you going to do as

a first step?

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“Triumph is just a little umph added to try.” (Tim Owens)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/stannate/3912535987 (stannate)

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disclosed

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kjfnjy/5249145754 (Ken and Nyetta)

“Coaching with NLP: How to be a Master Coach” by Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages www.goodreads.com/book/show/258916.Coaching_with_NLP

TED Talk: “Your body language shapes who you are” by Amy Cuddywww.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html

Manifesto for Agile Software Developmentwww.agilemanifesto.org

What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves - 140 sec session, Stoos Connect NL 2013www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4GLy_zJjcI

“Your Attitude Determines Whether Or Not You’ll Succeed”http://www.businessinsider.com.au/attitude-determines-success-2013-1

“Strengthsfinder 2.0” by Tom Rathhttp://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56454.StrengthsFinder_2_0

Secrets

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Thank you :)Iteration Manager

& Life CoachingStudent

@Erdbeervogel

linkedin.com/in/victoriaschifferGerman for “Strawberry-Bird”, hence the avatar

Victoria Schiffer

02/09/2013 | Agile Coaching Circles Meetup Melbourne

Monday, 2 September 13