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Interpersonal Relations, influences significantly our ability to enjoy our work and the skill with which we can hope to get along with others – Whether at office, or home or anywhere else. Hence, the need for paying some attention to the need for improving our interpersonal relations.
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Some Thoughts On
ImprovingInter Personal Relations
ImprovingInter Personal Relations
Some Thoughts On
Presented by: Prof. V. Viswanadham
TRUST BEGETS TRUST
Factors that build trust:
1. Character ~ implies Reliability and Integrity
2. Competence
3. Consistency
4. Being Fair, Open and Unprejudiced
DEVELOPING
A PLEASING PERSONALITY
1. Character, Competence and Commitment,
will lead to success.
Success acquires the Power of Attraction.
Attraction makes you acquire
a magnetic personality –
helps in developing Charisma
DEVELOPING
A PLEASING PERSONALITY
2. Being Fair and Just is
Righteousness.
Develops warmth in your behaviour ~
transparent on your face,
as it powerfully begins to flow
from your heart.
DEVELOPING
A PLEASING PERSONALITY
3. Consistency,
acquired through constant practice
becomes natural and further improves
charisma
LOSE ~ WIN
WIN ~ LOSE
WIN ~ WIN
LOSE ~ LOSE
SELF SELFISHNESS
PRIDEJEALOUSY
EGO
• An OPEN MIND is FLEXIBLE. It may ACCEPT or REJECT Ideasbased on careful consideration and merit.
• An EMPTY MIND is like a DUMPING GROUND. It accepts, without evaluation, both GOOD and BAD Ideas.
• A CLOSED MIND allows, neither the Good nor the Bad.
AcceptRESPONSIBILITY
When you willingly and smilingly accept RESPONSIBILITY
You are actually giving yourself an elevationto your stature and status
PROVE YOUR INDISPENSABILITY
Develop
Good COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Excessive talking does not mean communication.
Talk less, say more.Develop
Effective Communication Skills
COMPARISON ~ COMPETITION
EFFORT ~ RESULT ~ EVALUATION
ANALYSIS ~ CRITICISM ~
CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM
FEEDBACK ~
GIVING FEEDBACK &
RECEIVING FEEDBACK
We are very good
in criticizing others.
Are we willing to use
at least a small part
of our critical ability
to improve ourselves ?
ALL OF USDesire to beFRIENDLY,WANTED,LIKED,APPRECIATED.
Appreciation acts as a
wonderful MOTIVATING FORCE
A STRAIGHT LINE
WHAT IS A SMILE ?
A smile is a curved line that can straighten
many problems.
A SINCERE AND HONEST
SMILECAN SOLVE / IMPORVE MANY THINGS.
What are YOUWithout your SMILE ?
Good Listening Skills ~ improve Conversational Skills ~
leading to improvement in communication skills
~ particularly their effectiveness.
What are YOUWithout your
LISTENING SKILLS ?
DO YOU DISCUSS OR ARGUE ?
An argument throws heat; a discussion throws light.
Argument is coming from a closed mind trying to prove who is right rather than what is right.
Arguing is like fighting a losing battle, even if you win ,
the cost may be more than the victory
What are YOUWithout your
desire to improve yourLISTENING SKILLS ?
With a good sense of humour
you become more likable and attractive.
Smile and Humour,
are the best known tranquillizers
DO YOU GET
ANGRY ?CONTROLLING YOUR ANGER IS IMPORTANT
DEALING WITH OTHERS’ ANGER IS MORE IMPORTANT
DEALING WITH OTHERS’ ANGER, WHEN YOU ARE YOURSELF ANGRYIS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT
Sympathy is “I understand how you feel”
Empathy is “I feel how you feel”
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